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Thank you for sharing your story. You are very strong and brave! Please consider filing a complaint with your state medical board. You can do so anonymously, but the more details you can provide about the situation the better (The name of the doctor, date of the surgery, circumstances, etc). The medical board is there to protect you, the consumer, and they will investigate the situation to determine if the care was substandard. Sometimes these investigations uncover other unethical practices that happened as well. The medical board exists to hold these providers accountable. They are concerned with licensing issues and they want to make sure that malpractice is not being committed.

Filing a complaint with the medical board is different than pursuing a civil case against your doctor. It won't result in any monetary damages but it can serve as a check/balance on shady practices. The board can't act unless they receive a complaint in the first place, so they need to know what happened so they can look into it.

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Hello everyone, Laura (author) here. Thank you for the supportive comments and kind regards. I appreciate each message and use it to fuel more material like this. If anyone would like to read other essays I've written, my Substack is https://funkypsyche.substack.com/ I cover gender related topics, mental health, healing, art, politics, and philosophy. If anyone would care to support me, I am a recent college graduate and freelance artist who does interviews, essays, and advocacy mostly on a volunteer basis, so any donation would be appreciated. https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/FunkGodCreative?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US

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