If society has learned anything from the disasters of chopping down rainforests or tampering with the delicate ecosystems of wetlands, grasslands, coral reefs, forests, and a multitude of other habitats and natural treasures of planet Earth, it is this: when we upset the balance of an ecosystem, it leads to harm and destruction. If you generally agree that nature needs our protection, you might appreciate how this essay expands the view of nature to include our bodies. If you somehow missed the memo that we need to protect our air, soil, rivers, oceans, trees, plants, and animal food chains, this essay might push the boundaries of your thinking.
So how did some people lose their minds and their understanding of nature when it comes to the human body? How is it that a small group of people, with apparently suspicious or nefarious reasons, can decide that the human body should be completely altered and forced to endure chopping and tampering—and that this would work out all right for our children?
Did these people, some of whom are doctors, forget their Hippocratic Oath of “Do No Harm”, thinking that giving a girl testosterone or a boy estrogen is a good idea or even ethical? Do they truly believe that blocking puberty in children is harmless? How can they sleep at night after having concluded it was okay to remove healthy body parts like breasts and reproductive organs, irreversibly harming children and young adults and usually sterilizing them?
Gender ideology and the gender industry behind it profit from this destruction of our youth and it has gone on for too long.
In the past, those who wanted to save trees were given the derogatory name “tree hugger.” The Oxford Dictionary defines tree hugger as an environmental campaigner (used in reference to the practice of embracing a tree in an attempt to prevent it from being felled).
I would like to propose a new term to describe parents who are fighting to prevent their children from being prescribed cross-sex hormones and undergoing surgical modifications that will harm all their bodily systems and balances and deform their beautiful, natural bodies. My new term is Kid Hugger, defined as a parent who is attempting to prevent their child from the harm caused by “Gender Medicine” and perpetuated by organizations with alliances and agendas, such as trans activists, the pharmaceutical industry, and all those who have gotten on the “trans” bandwagon.
For those who are not well-read in this medical scandal or who are confused by the whole subject of gender ideology, I suggest reading this essay that outlines the perfect storm that got us where we are today.
Caring, concerned people need to wake up! If you are actively participating in this atrocity, please get out now and make amends. If you are just looking in the other direction because it doesn’t impact you directly, that, too, must stop. Turn toward what is going on and say something or do something. Your social justice motivations to include and love everyone might have been understandable years ago, but the evidence of harm is now clear.
Whistleblowers are popping up from every space in which kids have been harmed, and they are telling the public what is happening. A multitude of detransitioners are sharing their stories of how they were sucked into this ideology and managed to escape. Read the Cass Review or the WPATH files. All excuses for participating in or silently supporting this tragedy are no longer appropriate.
I realize that the Sunk Cost Fallacy, our tendency to continue with an endeavor or stand with a movement that we’ve invested money, effort, or time into, might be difficult to overcome, but overcome it you must. If you can’t hug a kid, hug a parent who is working hard to prevent the harm of a child, or hug a parent who lost their kid to this ideology and is grieving. Or hug a detransitioner who has been hurt and is trying to heal. Or hug a confused kid on the brink of making irreversible changes to their body and future health and guide them away from the danger. Help them love themselves again.
Learn all you can about the subject of gender ideology and participate in some way to bring sanity back to our world. Scan a list of resources and start reading, listening, and watching to learn more and advocate for the cessation of gender ideology.
Nature and kids can be resilient if given a chance and if the harm hasn’t been taken too far. We live in a time when our actions toward the Earth and our kids could go either way: continued harm or healing. Are you participating in the destruction of nature or the destruction of our kids and their futures? The time is now to take a stand. If you live in California, join Protect Kids CA. Other states, like Colorado and New York, are creating similar sites. Let’s hope all 50 states will join in protecting kids soon!
If you are a Democrat, join Democrats for an Informed Approach to Gender. If you are a woman, join Women’s Declaration International. That is a start, and there are plenty more organizations, depending on your party affiliation, the state in which you live, and your place in life and community. Thank you for standing with parents (Kid Huggers) to protect kids and standing with women to protect their rights.
Lisa Shultz advocates for parents and women’s rights and is deeply concerned about the harm being perpetrated on children and vulnerable adults. She is the author of The Trans Train: A Parent’s Perspective on Transgender Medicalization and Ideology.
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Bravo, you linked the environment issue to the human environment issue, probably to appeal certain bracket of the population. The thing is you also support women rights and usually when we talk about women rights are talking about women to have the right to abortion, no as women as human beings. And putting different unresolved topics together may be misleading. I like to separate everything not put all in the same bag. I don't know if that is your case and I am not accusing you of doing that but just clarifying. I am all for protect humans first so I do not think that a woman neither a man should decide if another human being have the right to live or not (abortion). In some cultures women do not have the right to decide if they can have their babies and their governments or husband/men in general have the right over women to make them abort and women fight for their rights to protect their babies in the womb, we in the west have all wrong, that right is not a right but a pushed agenda of human extermination. We are barbaric not sophisticate, specially if women see how an abortion is performed. I did so I know, not that I needed any convincing when you are a rational woman you understand that countries should be setting in place ways to protect a woman who in ignorance of biology got pregnant at the same time teach more biology and less sex, responsibility would be a good idea too, but still if in the rare case that an "unwanted" pregnancy happens it should be some support. We are sending billions of money to help to continue with wars that are not "our" wars, I guess we can help women to get in the right track again and a pregnancy should be an obstacle at all.
I also support all the environmental causes that have sense. I don't like pollution, or garbage in the streets, neither humans excrements or fesses. All human beings, specially in a rich country like this that have so much money to send oversees, should have a place to live. Period. I do not like chemical engineering, all the planes that pollute OUR skies with chemicals for the so called, weather modification, also I do not like the injustice of the West carbon print when China and other huge countries like India do no have the same policies. Why do we have to pay to breath while most half of the world don't? But I will tell you what another thing the East has NOT- transgenderism or a transgender agenda. Do you think that this is aleatory? How many Chinese or Indian children who do not live in America wants to be from the opposite sex? NONE!
This is by design, wake up people. There is a war against the West and its destruction. It is time that the West reacts but being more assertive in the values that created the West Civilization in the first place, one of the more unique civilization in the world, in which used to be PEACE, because to live in peace with other countries was important and collaboration with other countries so those can prosper too, to not be injured by politics of any kind, respect for others and their private property, equal opportunities, government transparency, congressmen who represent the interests of the people, and politics that secure the well being of the citizens not their harm, you get the picture. (I believe that doctors do not have to do the Oath any longer, but I am not completely sure where do I read that). Anyway I support all the people who are fighting back this diabolical agenda of transgenderism and try to support the children of America and the rest of the West. I will continue speaking out too because my vagina hurts every time I remember the gender regret humans talking about having vagina plastic surgery (men) and what do they have to do to keep it out open, and that never will be able to have an orgasm because if they have one is so painful, that is what happens when you mess up with nature. Much worst , there are out there people who talk kids into this, kids who do not know nothing about life. I make them responsables, all the adults around these victims. It is a freak show now but this started many decades ago slowly and now it is like a pandemic. I know personally five cases, it was inimaginable ten years ago so we know that are "social mechanisms in place".
It is a federal and state offense to disturb, mutilate, destroy or harass a sand turtle. If only children received this much protection from ambitious activists, doctors and psychiatrists. I support protecting the environment, but priorities, please!