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Cate's avatar

You're right: You did the best you could, so please be kind to yourself. Your son may come around in time. I hope so.

Trans-identified children cutting off their parents is yet another clear distinction from the gay rights movement. I had friends whose parents disowned THEM for being gay; I never heard of a gay person disowning their parents. Rather, they hoped their parents would eventually accept them and their partners, and many eventually did.

There's something very cult-like about isolating initiates from historical influences and family origins, which should surprise no one. Detransitioners seem to be finding out how loving their new "families" truly are. Fortunately, in most instances their actual families are still there for them.

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Matt Osborne's avatar

What kind of "social movement" promotes disconnection from family? The answer is a cult.

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