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EyesOpen's avatar

A worthy repost. And yes to this: "Shopping for the child who’s declared that he/she is not our son/daughter feels as if the floor of the mall has become lava. We tip-toe around, trying not to get burned. We look for neutral items which makes finding a present an impersonal and painful task."

I sent my daughter Christmas cookies that we used to make together with a card that didn't use her name at all except her last name only on the shipping box. Perhaps she will eat them or throw them out. But I acknowledged the holiday and her and said "I love you" in the card.

This is my second Christmas with no tree or gifts for me, and I'll spend the day alone. I'm not looking for pity. I got through it last year, and I will get through it again this year.

I know I am not really alone because I believe in God, and because of the parents in this group.

I send strength to all out there hurting right now.

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Mama Bear Proud's avatar

Thank you for reposting this. There are so many of us hurting. Every week, I meet more parents who are estranged because of the this mind bending cult.

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