Socialists believe—-When large numbers of people find themselves under pressure (from the revolution of socialism and new social relationships), that will put the nuclear family in turmoil, which will change the way that people look at societal views of what is considered family. Comradeship will replace normative views of traditional families and will work together as an alternative family. This will force the change of the normative family —the capitalist family—(which creates little capitalists) causing socialism to be pushed further into the societal norms, and allowing socialism to move ahead within the culture, eventually creating a utopian society according to socialists.
This is exactly how I feel, except I have an 18 year old son who thinks he is female. As soon as he turned 18 he got a doctor's appointment for hormones and in less than 3 months is developing breasts. I love him so much I simply cannot accept this and I am in tears daily. He's away at college but it is not very far. I get so upset when receiving texts where he tells me to use his "real name." And he is trying to divide us because he will not do this with his father. I am mad at myself for being mad at him. Do any of you have good ideas? Any great emails to send? At college he lives in the "gender inclusive" dorm so it is just a big echo chamber and I am guessing it is the same with his choice of majors. Recently he asked for more money above what we have budgeted each month to pay for his hormones which are not covered by insurance.....when I told him we did not agree with that he lashed out and said "How can you deny me something that is medically necessary?" Obviously, it is not. He honestly believes that he is smarter and more knowledgeable than we are about pretty much everything. He continually asks for money for extra stuff -- either due to driving around to see his echo chamber friends back home or extra curriculars -- while we do not mind paying for extra curriculars and glad he has joined, it is frustrating to feel like he only maintains contact for spending money and tuition.
Some days I think I have "let go and let God" but then the next day, I am filled with grief and determined to do something, anything, to continue fighting this.
I said this to my friend. If I had the faith that I have that God is good and has my son in His hands, then I need to trust in Him and let go of my constant worries. I also said it looks & feels a whole lot like “I don’t care.” My friend said that isn’t God making you worry and feel helpless. I’m far from a Bible thumper as we used to say growing up in the Bible Belt. I do know if people of faith believe in a higher, holy power, there is an earthly, evil power pulling against it. I will never give in to that. Worry robs me of my own daily joy and I know that isn’t what I need or what God wants. It’s my prayer for all of our children to come out of this evil cult & that it be cast so far into the pits of hell where it came from never to rear its head again.
Take care of yourself and your peace. You can’t fight the battle we face with this war torn and beaten down. Stay strong and in the fight. With God in our midst, we will prevail.
Stand your ground. Stay true to yourself and to God. When the truth comes to her mind again she will need someone sane and grounded to get her through.
I choose to resist. I will never accept. And I’m spiteful. I didn’t tip a waitress who called my son ma’am. Too bad. He’s my son. It’s not kind. I will always resist.
Stand firm and pray. We know and have the truth…Gods Word. Psalm 139. God creates male and female, wonderfully and fearfully made. Every knee will bow, every tongue will confess! Rev 4 “You are worthy O Lord, to receive Glory, Honor & Power. For you created all things and by your will, they exist and were created.”
Well, we are a week out from the election and thank goodness Seth Moulton had his say and is sticking to his values and good common sense! Unfortunately, the academics (Tuft's.... in Moulton's case) or Progressive wing will not back down or go away. Those on the far left are screeching mad at the man for telling the truth. Never have I loved a politician this much.....and I don't even live in his state!
I do not have a child with this situation. However, I am a school board member in Colorado and the state passed a law saying that we have to pass a district policy to “honor” non-legal name changes specifically regarding gender. We have to force teachers to call children by their “chosen” name in said policy. I cannot and will not participate in this lie. We need to get these children the help they need, however this sick, twisted gender machine makes them defiant of help or truth. We must continue to fight this insanity.
It is elected officials like you whom we need to keep on school boards and county seats, etc…
These are where the bread and butter of the ideological movement is trying to infiltrate. The small changes of words (using names, bathroom use, sports integration) in rules & laws are things which go under the radar as most are busy in their own lives. Next thing you know we end up here losing our future to a government sanctioned cult. Hold steadfast and for those of us in the trenches, TY for holding the line with us.
You are 100% right. I am right here with you, and I think the election results in the United States show that we have made a difference and other even/especially true liberals have seen it but have been too cowardly to be public about it. Keep resisting. It is the only way to save our daughters, our sons, humanity, sanity, truth.
Resist! Be angry, we can’t help that! Channel the anger into work toward the end of this and bury your firmly heels in the ground. This is a movement that has a beginning and will have an end. Our kids will need us when the veil finally lifts and blows away into the nether!
You are in denial. Resistance is futile. All your biological and technological advances will be added to our collective. Your life as you know it is over. We are borg.
Talk to her. Tell her what YOU feel and why these FEELINGS matter to you and make you who you are.
There is no other way. I feel so sorry for you. This is evil.
The Borg did huge, horrible damage. But in the Star Trek story, ultimately the Borg lost. Our world has taken tremendous damage to human life from the trans gender poison and mutilation. It is our obligation to resist with all our resources. Stop the insanity. We may not be privileged to see the end of this fight, but we must fight. Never give in. Heaven help us.
So true! The Borg did lose in the end. Nice to see Star Trek fans here. I will keep resisting! My daughter will never be my son! I will never believe it!
But first you may have to become Locutus of Borg in order to fully understand their perspective. Then your First Officer, you too in your role as parent, can use what you know that you know, against the Borg. Maybe then one day you'll find Hugh and start the internal dissolution of the cult, by infusing your understanding of individuality into the hive mind.
I 100% agree with you! I will not use different pronouns or names. I am done walking on egg shells only to be disrespected anyway. I will always love my daughter and I am heartbroken that the woke mob got to her. I know God has a plan. She was a very strong Christian before 2020. Keep fighting…I know we will be glad we did. I find peace in Isaiah 49 24-25 Shall the prey be taken from the mighty, or the lawful captive delivered? BUT this saith the Lord, even the captives of the mighty shall be taken away, and the prey of the terrible shall be delivered; for I will contend with him that contendeth with thee, and I WILL SAVE MY CHILDREN! I wrote this on a postcard and I read it every day! I see God moving…Trump sees the evil and he is sending help! Take care of yourself for now. So that you can be strong for your kid.
You do not have to accept this. None of us do; it’s a choice to accept, reject, & everything else that lies within those parameters. Wondering how you may be able to use the energy derived from your anger, sadness, disappointment, etc to fortify you & your family…
When we don't accept this we get the stupid "estrangement" text/email/letter. I live with that every day. I used to cry daily, but that just made me feel worse. I walk 4-5 days a wk....during those walks I think about her or have imaginary conversations with her or get angry at her. That is my time devoted to feeling bad/angry about the situation and then I go on with my day. I raised her to fly away from the nest and to go out into the world and be a productive and thoughtful human being....and that is what she has done.....but without me and the family. I have to hope that someday she will realize that she is who she is because of the way she was raised within our family circle.
Keep resisting. I remember all too well, my panic and fears and can relate all too well to what you describe. If you still have your daughter living at home, there is some room for you to do something positive now! Are you strategically sharing on a regular basis a bit of your concerns? Do you have any kind of dialogue with your daughter? I find that making "I" statements about what I'm feeling and what I think is a good way to share. This takes some training. When I make "you make me feel, or you are doing this" statements, it immediately makes the other person go on the defensive. Have you shared any of these concerns or statements you are writing here? I believe that demonstrating that you can be confident stating and sharing your wisdom and perspective, will be helpful to your daughter. Your words and your presence as her Mother, will land somewhere in her psyche, if not now, then in the future. Resistance may appear to be futile, but the seeds of truth will sprout someday. Together with thousands of parents across the nation who face this horror daily, we are finally seeing positive results from the combined efforts of millions of people who want an end to this terrible lie.
Echoing all of the above, keep on resisting! Together we are making a difference and picking up momentum. It’s been 10 years from the start for us and we are seeing a great deal of change since the beginning when we had no clue as to what had captured our son.
Socialists believe—-When large numbers of people find themselves under pressure (from the revolution of socialism and new social relationships), that will put the nuclear family in turmoil, which will change the way that people look at societal views of what is considered family. Comradeship will replace normative views of traditional families and will work together as an alternative family. This will force the change of the normative family —the capitalist family—(which creates little capitalists) causing socialism to be pushed further into the societal norms, and allowing socialism to move ahead within the culture, eventually creating a utopian society according to socialists.
This is exactly how I feel, except I have an 18 year old son who thinks he is female. As soon as he turned 18 he got a doctor's appointment for hormones and in less than 3 months is developing breasts. I love him so much I simply cannot accept this and I am in tears daily. He's away at college but it is not very far. I get so upset when receiving texts where he tells me to use his "real name." And he is trying to divide us because he will not do this with his father. I am mad at myself for being mad at him. Do any of you have good ideas? Any great emails to send? At college he lives in the "gender inclusive" dorm so it is just a big echo chamber and I am guessing it is the same with his choice of majors. Recently he asked for more money above what we have budgeted each month to pay for his hormones which are not covered by insurance.....when I told him we did not agree with that he lashed out and said "How can you deny me something that is medically necessary?" Obviously, it is not. He honestly believes that he is smarter and more knowledgeable than we are about pretty much everything. He continually asks for money for extra stuff -- either due to driving around to see his echo chamber friends back home or extra curriculars -- while we do not mind paying for extra curriculars and glad he has joined, it is frustrating to feel like he only maintains contact for spending money and tuition.
Some days I think I have "let go and let God" but then the next day, I am filled with grief and determined to do something, anything, to continue fighting this.
I said this to my friend. If I had the faith that I have that God is good and has my son in His hands, then I need to trust in Him and let go of my constant worries. I also said it looks & feels a whole lot like “I don’t care.” My friend said that isn’t God making you worry and feel helpless. I’m far from a Bible thumper as we used to say growing up in the Bible Belt. I do know if people of faith believe in a higher, holy power, there is an earthly, evil power pulling against it. I will never give in to that. Worry robs me of my own daily joy and I know that isn’t what I need or what God wants. It’s my prayer for all of our children to come out of this evil cult & that it be cast so far into the pits of hell where it came from never to rear its head again.
Take care of yourself and your peace. You can’t fight the battle we face with this war torn and beaten down. Stay strong and in the fight. With God in our midst, we will prevail.
Stand your ground. Stay true to yourself and to God. When the truth comes to her mind again she will need someone sane and grounded to get her through.
I choose to resist. I will never accept. And I’m spiteful. I didn’t tip a waitress who called my son ma’am. Too bad. He’s my son. It’s not kind. I will always resist.
I would never call principled resistance spiteful ! You are just standing up for the truth !
Stand firm and pray. We know and have the truth…Gods Word. Psalm 139. God creates male and female, wonderfully and fearfully made. Every knee will bow, every tongue will confess! Rev 4 “You are worthy O Lord, to receive Glory, Honor & Power. For you created all things and by your will, they exist and were created.”
It may be futile but even if it is, do the right thing. It reminds me of the poem:
First they came for the Communists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Communist
Then they came for the Socialists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Socialist
Then they came for the trade unionists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a trade unionist
Then they came for the Jews
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Jew
Then they came for me
And there was no one left
To speak out for me
Well, we are a week out from the election and thank goodness Seth Moulton had his say and is sticking to his values and good common sense! Unfortunately, the academics (Tuft's.... in Moulton's case) or Progressive wing will not back down or go away. Those on the far left are screeching mad at the man for telling the truth. Never have I loved a politician this much.....and I don't even live in his state!
I do not have a child with this situation. However, I am a school board member in Colorado and the state passed a law saying that we have to pass a district policy to “honor” non-legal name changes specifically regarding gender. We have to force teachers to call children by their “chosen” name in said policy. I cannot and will not participate in this lie. We need to get these children the help they need, however this sick, twisted gender machine makes them defiant of help or truth. We must continue to fight this insanity.
It is elected officials like you whom we need to keep on school boards and county seats, etc…
These are where the bread and butter of the ideological movement is trying to infiltrate. The small changes of words (using names, bathroom use, sports integration) in rules & laws are things which go under the radar as most are busy in their own lives. Next thing you know we end up here losing our future to a government sanctioned cult. Hold steadfast and for those of us in the trenches, TY for holding the line with us.
You are 100% right. I am right here with you, and I think the election results in the United States show that we have made a difference and other even/especially true liberals have seen it but have been too cowardly to be public about it. Keep resisting. It is the only way to save our daughters, our sons, humanity, sanity, truth.
Amen
Resist! Be angry, we can’t help that! Channel the anger into work toward the end of this and bury your firmly heels in the ground. This is a movement that has a beginning and will have an end. Our kids will need us when the veil finally lifts and blows away into the nether!
You are in denial. Resistance is futile. All your biological and technological advances will be added to our collective. Your life as you know it is over. We are borg.
Talk to her. Tell her what YOU feel and why these FEELINGS matter to you and make you who you are.
There is no other way. I feel so sorry for you. This is evil.
The Borg did huge, horrible damage. But in the Star Trek story, ultimately the Borg lost. Our world has taken tremendous damage to human life from the trans gender poison and mutilation. It is our obligation to resist with all our resources. Stop the insanity. We may not be privileged to see the end of this fight, but we must fight. Never give in. Heaven help us.
So true! The Borg did lose in the end. Nice to see Star Trek fans here. I will keep resisting! My daughter will never be my son! I will never believe it!
But first you may have to become Locutus of Borg in order to fully understand their perspective. Then your First Officer, you too in your role as parent, can use what you know that you know, against the Borg. Maybe then one day you'll find Hugh and start the internal dissolution of the cult, by infusing your understanding of individuality into the hive mind.
I 100% agree with you! I will not use different pronouns or names. I am done walking on egg shells only to be disrespected anyway. I will always love my daughter and I am heartbroken that the woke mob got to her. I know God has a plan. She was a very strong Christian before 2020. Keep fighting…I know we will be glad we did. I find peace in Isaiah 49 24-25 Shall the prey be taken from the mighty, or the lawful captive delivered? BUT this saith the Lord, even the captives of the mighty shall be taken away, and the prey of the terrible shall be delivered; for I will contend with him that contendeth with thee, and I WILL SAVE MY CHILDREN! I wrote this on a postcard and I read it every day! I see God moving…Trump sees the evil and he is sending help! Take care of yourself for now. So that you can be strong for your kid.
You do not have to accept this. None of us do; it’s a choice to accept, reject, & everything else that lies within those parameters. Wondering how you may be able to use the energy derived from your anger, sadness, disappointment, etc to fortify you & your family…
When we don't accept this we get the stupid "estrangement" text/email/letter. I live with that every day. I used to cry daily, but that just made me feel worse. I walk 4-5 days a wk....during those walks I think about her or have imaginary conversations with her or get angry at her. That is my time devoted to feeling bad/angry about the situation and then I go on with my day. I raised her to fly away from the nest and to go out into the world and be a productive and thoughtful human being....and that is what she has done.....but without me and the family. I have to hope that someday she will realize that she is who she is because of the way she was raised within our family circle.
Keep resisting. I remember all too well, my panic and fears and can relate all too well to what you describe. If you still have your daughter living at home, there is some room for you to do something positive now! Are you strategically sharing on a regular basis a bit of your concerns? Do you have any kind of dialogue with your daughter? I find that making "I" statements about what I'm feeling and what I think is a good way to share. This takes some training. When I make "you make me feel, or you are doing this" statements, it immediately makes the other person go on the defensive. Have you shared any of these concerns or statements you are writing here? I believe that demonstrating that you can be confident stating and sharing your wisdom and perspective, will be helpful to your daughter. Your words and your presence as her Mother, will land somewhere in her psyche, if not now, then in the future. Resistance may appear to be futile, but the seeds of truth will sprout someday. Together with thousands of parents across the nation who face this horror daily, we are finally seeing positive results from the combined efforts of millions of people who want an end to this terrible lie.
Echoing all of the above, keep on resisting! Together we are making a difference and picking up momentum. It’s been 10 years from the start for us and we are seeing a great deal of change since the beginning when we had no clue as to what had captured our son.