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Alli's avatar

“Why are her feelings more valid than ours?” you ask. My question is “Why are her feelings more valid than reality?”

We are elevating feelings over truth in many parts of our culture. In doing so we deny what is real and position ourselves to deceive and be deceived.

I have stopped asking my kids how they feel about things. Instead I ask “what do you think?”

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EyesOpen's avatar

You nailed it and I feel the same.

Not allowing parents to use their child's birth name is cruel and meant to sever our attachment.

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