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Natalia's avatar

Let her go. Save him. My son has also had to suffer his sister going gaga. Now it’s the three of us, mum, dad, him. He is the loyal son in the Prodigal Son story. He deserves a little feast with a little lamb every now and then. And I literally spoil him. I genuinely buy him lamb haha. Since she left he has been there for us. Poor thing. I bought him a little present the other day, a silver coin with a Darth Vader, from the New Zealand mint. Yes, he now deserves love and peace. She has been horrible to him.

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Sali Pet 🇦🇺's avatar

It has been harrowing for my other kids. We all walk a tentative fine line with each other. One affirms & is a total genderism believer, the other goes along with the new name, to keep the relationship, but thinks it is bollocks. However we don’t talk about her. ‘She that may not be named’ - in my presence anyway. It had fractured my parent child relationship with these other 2 adult kids & she estranged from me “unless I believe she is a boy” ( the cult came for my youngest when she was 25!!!!, at uni after breaking up with a long term partner ) . Anyway I recently turned a corner & am done with the grief & misery & want my life back. So for the first time in years, I am very glad she’s fucked off out of my life. She’s such an unpleasant human being I don’t want anything to do with her. Instead I very much want to rebuild and recover the relationships with my other two children. One which has a drug and alcohol issue, which hasn’t helped having a focus so much on the trans issues. Finally, there is room for working on sobriety in the calm that’s come since this cult child has left our lives. The other one has missed me and wants more and more to do with me.

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