The ABC of my Trans Adventure, Part Two
This is the second segment of an essay in four parts. Part one.
B is for Biased and Bigoted Baloney (or B.S) gone Bonkers
In December 2023, the Trudeau government gave Morgane Oger, a transgender "woman" (aka a man), a "meritorious service medal" for being "a champion of diversity". Interestingly, this gender confused man was instrumental in the decision, by the city council of Vancouver, to defund the Vancouver Rape Relief Center, the oldest of its kind in Canada. The reason? The center is refusing to welcome men who believe they are women. Morgane Oger doesn't seem to grasp the concept that women who have been raped feel neither safe nor comfortable around "women with a penis" and an intact ability to get sexually aroused and potentially act upon it, sleeping next to them in a facility that is supposed to be a safe haven for sexually wounded women.1
Some time ago, the Women's Rights Network mentioned the content of an email that was sent to a female rape victim by the Edinburgh Rape Crisis Centre in the UK, informing her that she was not "suitable" for their services, because she was requesting a "women-only group therapy". It's noteworthy to mention that the CEO of that Rape Crisis Center is ...a transgender "woman" (a man). When confronted about that email, this lovely compassionate individual had the following comforting words for trans exclusive rape victims: "Sexual violence happens to bigoted people as well...it is not a discerning crime...these spaces (the Centre) are also for you. But if you bring unacceptable beliefs that are discriminatory in nature, we will begin to work with you on your journey to recovery from trauma; but please expect to be challenged on your prejudices". 2
To women who feel threatened and unsafe by the presence of trans "women" with male genitalia around, his advice is to "rethink your relationship with prejudice" and my favorite: "reframe your trauma". Let's define "reframe". Basically, it's a strategy in psychology, used to bring someone to "adjust their mindset", in order to look at an issue from a different perspective, with the goal of "altering" the emotional context of a problem. Someone else describes it, more plainly, as "kicking yourself in the ass and using mind power to reassess your shit". All right. So let me reassess my shit for a moment: I am a woman with female genitalia, who was raped by a man with male genitalia. I am physically wounded, my mind bordering on a state of insanity, the brokenness in my soul is unfathomable, and what is asked of me - to find the strength in my fragile and fragmented self to reconsider the reality and the intensity of my very real, ever present and debilitating suffering, in order to accommodate men who delude themselves into thinking they are women. I’m also asked to be careful not to hurt these men’s feelings, which for some reason, take precedence over mine, despite the fact that I have been raped and ignored my natural instincts of self protection. I have two words for those who expect that "reassessment": fuck off.
Let me give a few more examples to get to the point I'm trying to make:
You may remember Jonathan Yaniv,3 also known as Jessica Yaniv and more recently Jessica Simpson (yes, like the singer). He is famous for filing many lawsuits (claiming discrimination related to his status as a "transgender woman"), against more than a dozen waxing salons where female beauticians had refused to wax his male genitalia, causing two businesses to close and the others to spend a crazy amount of time and money in court.
As recently as June 2024, also in Canada, a trans "woman" was awarded close to $35,000 because the employee of a wax salon, a Muslim woman, declined waxing the "woman's” male genitalia. 4
In stark contradiction to what concerned citizens and parents were told over and over, Scott Smith’s daughter was victim of a crime that, we were assured, never happens. She was raped in the school bathroom by a fellow student who identifies as a girl and was allowed to use the bathroom that "aligns" with his gender identity. The school district tried their very best to ignore the crime as it didn't fit the narrative.5 The superintendent was later fired for his (mis)handling of the case.
The marvelous J.K. Rowling has put her name and reputation on the line, very successfully, to expose the crimes committed on real women by gender bender pretenders, housed or jailed with females.6
Unfortunately, I could go on. What's my point?
Those frauds, and the bastards who support and enable them, have zero regard for the feelings, well-being and safety of women, and have no problem sacrificing the healing process of hurt women for the sake of pushing their delusion on society and tyrannically ensuring that their gender fantasies are affirmed and dissent crushed. As Jonathon Von Maren, a talented journalist who has written extensively on trans issues, states: "The primary characteristic of transgender activists is an unyielding misogynistic cruelty" and also, "Trans activists treat women and girls with contempt and cruelty".7 I couldn't agree more. It is, indeed, today's reality for too many women.
To paraphrase Dr. Joseph Burgo (who has an acute understanding and breathtaking clarity in regard to the trans mindset), trans "women" (aka men), have an idealized and erroneous self-perception that, to them, justifies being granted equal rights and given access to spaces traditionally reserved for biological women. And though those trans "women" claim that they suffer life threatening persecution as victims of "attempted genocide" and "transphobic legislation", they are, in fact, truly tormented by the very existence of biological sex and its unattainable reality (for them as males). And despite the fact that trans "women" have "access" to babies through surrogacy and some flaunt the despicable practice of chest feeding (where both poor innocent baby and deluded chest feeder swallow a cocktail of dangerous chemicals),8 an unshakable and deep-seated nagging feeling that their self-perception is a falsehood, remains. No matter the depth or level of sophistication of their delusion, they are painfully aware that the authentic biological realities of females, such as pregnancy, menstruation, real breastfeeding, etc.., are out of their reach.
This can lead to a pathological "envy" towards biological women because they are the living expression of who they want to be but never will be and the "proof in the pudding " that they are living a lie.
As we have witnessed, it has paved the way, at times, to violence (verbal and physical) and attempts at vilification and social cancelation due to the unacceptable truth women represent.9 As Dr. Burgo says, "it is the factual reality of biological sex that torments him (the trans "woman"), because it challenges the psychological lie he inhabits, forcing him back upon the truth he hates the most of all -that he is a deeply troubled and emotionally damaged man-".10
I pray for the day when the current trans insanity will be remembered as a time of despicable madness and horrific abuse against women, children and families and the majority of people will be filled with so much disgust against that pure and unadulterated evil that it will become unthinkable to most and considered a dark and shameful time of the human history.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12904371/Canadian-transgender-activist-Morgane-Oger-gets-medal.html
https://www.heraldscotland.com/news/19509343.outcry-plan-educate-bigoted-rape-survivors-trans-rights/
This really blew me away.It succinctly captures the insanity and depravity of this nightmare we live in.
I agree with all of this. The crux of the problem is that the denial of physical reality is not a healthy state of mind. While many who suffer from this issue are kind, thoughtful individuals who would never dream of hurting another person, for the few who wield their mental illness as a weapon, now aided by those who push delusional thinking and reality denial, believing themselves to be "kind allies" and "heroes," this is extremely dangerous to the women around them.
I too am chomping at the bit, waiting for society to realize the epic scandal that is in front of us, and to truly realize the horrific events that have followed this scandal, from unfairness in sports to invasions of privacy to rapes and sexual assaults to the medical damage foisted upon so many vulnerable individuals, many of whom are only children, and all of whom have been lied to gaslit into believing these medical interventions are necessary and harmless.
I really want to yell out my window "I'm mad as hell and I'm not gonna take this any more!!!" (Think of the movie Network.)