The ABC of My Trans Adventure, Part Three
This is the third segment of an essay in four parts. Part one and part two.
C is for Creepy and Confused Cheaters, Cruelly and Callously Creating Craziness and Complete Chaos in Competition
In an episode of his podcast "The Joe Rogan Experience" with guest Ice Cube (rapper and founder of the BIG3, basketball league), Joe Rogan stated, quite accurately, that when it comes to men (trans "women") competing in women's sports, biological females are basically forced to comply or give up.
He added, "It's fucking up women's sports in a huge way...If you care at all about biological women, you should be against that". I'd like to pause for a moment on that last statement "if you care at all about biological women". It's actually the very essence of the issue with gender confused men. Trans "women", aka males competing against real women, don't give a damn about female competitors. These men know that they have significant physical advantages which aren’t negated with hormones and that these physical advantages will propel them from mediocre in male sports to the top of women’s sports. On top of depriving hard working female athletes of the fruit of their labor, they are, at times, responsible for injuries sustained by female athletes, due to their superior male strength.1 Some of those trans athletes have no problem admitting that they actually enjoy hurting women in the process. A trans MMA fighter, Fallon Fox, said in an interview in 2020: "For the record, I knocked two out (women). One woman's skull was fractured, the other not. And just so you know: I enjoyed it. See, I love smacking up TEFS in the cage who talk transphobic nonsense. It's bliss".2 By TEFS, he meant TERFS. You know, those women who fight for the right to not be erased and discarded as women...
Trans athletes (all of them males, of course, how many women could compete against men in most sports?) are also very aware of the societal support they get and the nasty public excoriation any dissenter gets for criticizing their "victories" and "accomplishments" and exposing them as the blatant frauds they are (thank God for women like Riley Gaines).3 The ultimate proof that they are not in it for the competition is that no one ever signs up (or very rarely) when an open trans category is made available to them. They are not in for the game but to compete against women4 and win. Plus, how many men identifying as trans women compete in sports where they can’t excel, like women’s gymnastics?
Society goes to great lengths to cater to those gender confused men, enacting laws against deadnaming and misgendering, for example, that are elevated to the level of serious crimes. Someone somewhere said: "I never misgender transgenders. They misgender themselves and I don't play along". So true. Somehow, society seems OK with the fact that the sacrosanct "inclusion" of those trans "women" has relegated women to a societal underclass of unimportant and unaffirmed individuals who are not allowed to feel hurt or harassed, complain about being erased and are expected to remain silent and submissively compliant when those feelings of subjection become their daily reality.
In that regard, Fatima Goss Graves, President and CEO of National Women's Law Center, an entity which purports to have women's best interest at heart, said, during a Title IX hearing in December 2023, that female athletes need "to learn to lose gracefully" when they lose to confused men competing against them.5
Where does it stop? And what a scandalous bastardization of a great quality! Knowing how to lose gracefully is, indeed, a great virtue, but only if you have a chance to win. It becomes a blatant injustice if you're forced to play against gender opportunists who have been through male puberty and may have competed in men's leagues prior to "transition".
Following that flawed and scandalous logic of expecting females to show "kind acceptance" to men playing in their games, teen girls in Canada have been asked to "gracefully" accept the presence of a grown male on their team.
Nicholas Cepeda,6 also known as Melody Wiseheart, is not only gender confused; he is also age confused. Although in his 50s, this professor at a university in Canada, who specializes in Children and Teens, identifies as a teen girl and as such, has been allowed to compete in swim meets for girls 18 years old and younger. He doesn't just compete; he also shares showers and changing rooms with his young, female teammates. It's my understanding that he placed sixth in one of those races in Toronto against 13 and 14 years olds. Whether he is a lousy swimmer or is not trying too hard, his motivation is clearly not (or at least not only) the exhilaration of an easy win and parading on a podium. Sexual deviants with pedophilic tendencies and weird fetishes have always been around. What's different today is that grown men are allowed to live their sexual fantasies in the daylight.7 And what's both problematic and worrisome is the complacency of sports organizations that are choosing to ignore the vulnerability and the injustice imposed on their young female members and, in a larger scale, society who seems to be willing to sacrifice its children's rights and innocence on the altar of the woke deity "inclusion".
Talking about "woke", their agenda driven propaganda is constantly bombarding us with novelty concepts and ideas, each crazier than the last. Any attempt at debate or dissent is met with ferocious accusations of bigotry and hatefulness (among other things) and every effort is made to take dissenters on a heavy-handed guilt trip, loaded with public shame to silence them.
As a result, we are at risk, as a society, of becoming the proverbial frog in the post of boiling water that is slowly acclimated to the heat until it is boiled to death. If we don't watch out and resist the insanity, and we allow certain "values", admirable in themselves but twisted by the woke mentality, to be elevated to a level of untouchable cultural sacredness. We'll get to a point where society will let people get away with murder and rape under the twisted reasoning that it helps them "feel" affirmed, valued, understood and included. You think I'm being dramatic and over the top? Recently, a 15-year-old girl was gang raped by nine young men in Germany. Eight of the men received suspended sentences (so no jail) and the ninth one was sentenced to less than three years in juvenile detention. When a justifiably outraged woman insulted one of the rapists on social media (she called him "a rapist pig" and "a disgusting freak", she got two days of jail for hurting his feelings.8
As Chuck Colson said: "ideas have consequences. Bad ideas have victims".
Everyone I ask doesn't believe men should compete in women's sports. Yet, that is what continues to happen. Why is Riley Gaines the only vocal person standing up to it? (And you, the author of this piece-thank you!)
You said, "Trans 'women', aka males competing against real women, don't give a damn about female competitors." How did we ever let this happen?
And I never thought I would hear someone say, "female athletes need "to learn to lose gracefully".
Enough is enough. No men in women's sports now. Reparations are in order too. All awards, metals, and anything else wrongfully taken from women by men needs to be given to the woman who rightfully should have had it if the competition had been fair.
too many transwomen have retained their male privilege attitudes.