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Davis, Thomas's avatar

The depth of thought and heart that went into this essay is enough to make my heart bound simultaneously with sorrow and joy. I'm sure it will lead many parents to a more productive path through the ideological jungle. Thanks a million for writing it.

Tom

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Shannon Daley's avatar

This is the way :) we've progressed similarly. With many of our children reactance is a *huge* factor, stoked by activist rhetoric of course. I know other ppl have taken different paths w their cult-captured children, but with mine, yours, and many others... they have to choose to grow out of this. Without their own reflection and willingness, it won't happen. It can't be forced, or just switched off. Our job is to work on strengthening our attachment and being their constant anchor to reality... with love, support, and as much guidance along the way as we can strategically provide.

Love the garden analogy btw. So many things in my own life have been this way. Seeds. And that's exactly how I've thought of it too💕

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