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MeriBear's avatar

Oh, I am so sorry! Our daughter was a full adult, a mother even, with a newly five year old she had only quit nursing the year before when she announced she was trans “and there is no negotiation!” We have felt the same pain you feel and have no answers, after seven years. We have not seen our granddaughter since she was 4.5. She is now 11.5. We send gifts to her that are never acknowledged. Her mother has told her she is our granddaughter’s father, despite her parents having 50/50 custody. We lost a daughter, but our granddaughter lost her mother. It hurts my heart.

We are the parents screaming into the wind. I do not believe history will be kind to our children’s choices.

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KB77's avatar

“You lied to us: a first. You stole from us: another first. Then you stopped communicating at all. “

This. Our daughter went from someone we could trust to someone we don’t even recognize. It’s been a long slow suicide with no end in sight.

Whoever wrote this beautiful and heartbreaking piece, you are not alone. All we can do is warn the next group of parents behind us about the dangers we encountered, and hope that someday sanity will return to our children.

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