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Cindy Horne Cowan's avatar

I really needed to read this today. I sent my son some information from a PITT article hoping to start a dialogue and he responded by telling me it was hate information and if I felt that way that I should never contact him again. Wow. I don’t even recognize who I’m talking to. He has been taking estrogen for about 60 days and is 36 and married for 12 years. No kids thank goodness. I’m shocked. And told him I was surprised at his reaction. That I just wanted to hear how he is feeling. He said if I can’t support him 100% then he doesn’t want to talk and said he was going to block me. Whoa! He lives nearby I almost went to his house. But I’m going to wait and let him stew on this. I also think that I need to stop reading all the “proof” of this trans cult stuff and just focus on myself. Oh. He told me I’m a narcissist because I won’t agree with him on his transitioning. Makes no sense to me. I’m going to chill out today and let him be. I can’t get caught up in his madness. Hope we all can have happy endings some day with our children.

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Exactly. It is time to pivot towards finding small joys in other ways. It is very hard, but please try to take tiny steps on a day to day basis. You need relief. I hear you loud and clear because we are dealing with the same thing. My daughter who has ROGD and decided to remove her breasts at age 24 is now at 27 deciding she wants a husband and a child. Years of hormonal injections to be a man notwithstanding. The cult tells you to keep morphing your body towards inner joy and fulfillment. As we all know, happiness and fulfillment comes from what happens inside - not by external forces, or carving your body into whatever shape they tell you meets the criteria. The destruction to the family, the care and love you gave that child is not their concern. First off, is to separate the child from family, from the people who truly love them and make them look towards the other cult members who will serve as their new family. Too bad the cult won't be there when things fall apart.

The push to carve and create as many Trans people as they can is the ONLY concern. It is a narcissistic ideology that is akin to Scientology. They brook no dissent.

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