A little story of hope for anyone who is reading this: we are fresh out of a seven year hell where my stepdaughter thought she was trans. Her biological mother bought her chest binders at 14 and she moved out of our home when she was 16 to her mothers bc we “didn’t love her” because we would not affirm her delusion and call her a he/him. The world and her mother and stepfather and many other family members lied to her for years. After two years on testosterone, she stopped last October just after she turned 20. She is now fully embracing her womanhood and allllll the parts of herself that she would not accept and shunned. We are all grateful she did not cut up her body. She is growing and learning and realizing what she has lost these last 7 years and what has been done. So many sleepless nights and months of my life (not to mention the heartbreaks my husband experienced throughout) in cumulative time of research deep in this world…my heart goes out to all who are suffering while their children go off… I pray that one day they all return. I see you. I hear you. I feel you. I am you and I’m so sorry any of this ever came into any of our lives.
Keep loving your children, even when it’s the hardest of hard. Have hope ♥️ and most of all, take care of yourself.
I see it as spiritual warfare. Only evil could cause a child to turn against their parents-- the ones whom they always trusted the most. Who else, in the world, would our children be so cruel to? If only they could see the cause of their own manipulation. The illustration with this really struck me! The online brainwashing. Plus the indoctrination in schools and other media. It has proven to be a sick, evil trend, with we parents left holding the bag of agony. The enemy is behind all of this, with his efforts to divide and destroy all that is good-- the family.
You are absolutely correct. I just this morning listened to a video that really started out about the a woman who was in Mexico when the chaos happened there a few weeks ago...but she goes into a lot of what is really going on...if anyone is interesting the Rumble Channel is LostinTransationShow and it was the latest video Simone Live in Mexico. I'm going to listen again. EVERYTHING is connected. The enemy comes to steal kill and destroy and as a spiritual battle it has to be fought spiritually! I truly believe that God is about to move His hand because if we had to fight this on our own it would take forever. There is SO much happening! Keep the faith!! Justice is coming, Vengeance is the Lord's, and judgement begins in the house of the Lord.....there will be a lot of people shocked by what they are about to learn!
I couldn’t agree more with what is in this post. But the idea that the children must choose to see their parents differently than they have been brainwashed to believe, is an idea that must be born from within them. They are in so deep in that this suggestion from an outsider is useless.
An important distinction is being lost. There is a difference between protecting a young person from real harm and encouraging them to cut off their family over disagreement.
In some online spaces, affirmation has replaced guidance. But affirmation without critical thought is not support, it is mindless. Many young people do not have the emotional or financial means to stand alone. The risks are real, including homelessness, instability, and lost years when identity becomes the sole focus.
Development takes time, connection, and the chance for relationships to evolve. Pushing separation as a first response can leave a young person more vulnerable, not less.
This is not a short term decision. It is a long term loss for everyone involved.
Going no contact is a blow, which you cannnot parry and at first an easy victory for the young. It takes some time til the realisation of the loss elaborates itself. There is no way to get rid of the parents without consequences for the soul.
I feel like reading my own thoughts on paper, surreal.
I set a boundary and was called a closed-minded patriarchal oppressor, by a young man who I considered to be my son for 4 years and put my whole heart and soul into, trying to substitute a mother he never really had. No good deed goes unpunished, hey?
Social networks entangled reality and fiction. In such a world emotions and feelings are currency to trade with. There isnt much interest in objectivity.
This gave me a thought. Maybe not a good thought, but a glimmer of an idea.
What if the parents took the fight to the battlefield. If this stuff is happening on Discord then join and comment on Discord. Maybe you won't be able to fix your own child, but help another family. Cast doubt upon the trans brainwashing.
Maybe parents can take the fight to The Trevor Project, https://www.thetrevorproject.org/. We on PITT have known it's a groomer group for years but it has become even worse and their hotline is on every student ID card in CA.
"This national organization pretends to be a suicide prevention resource for “marginalized LGBTQ+ youth,” but in reality, it’s more focused on transitioning minors, breaking up families, and gathering vulnerable children for groomers and predators.
The Trevor Project is not some marginal player in the LGBTQ+ machine. It’s heavily funded and, as of this year, every California public school is required to list the organization’s hotline number on student ID cards."...
"Their hotlines and chat groups are full of trained “counselors” who are happy to tell your child that you don’t love them and they should seek out a chosen family, also known as a “glitter family,” instead.
The Trevor Project defines chosen family as:
“A common term in the LGBTQ+ community used to describe people who are not related by birth or marriage yet whose bond is like that of family. Oftentimes, LGBTQ+ people may find and build their chosen family out of necessity, due to a lack of understanding or acceptance, or by being kicked out or disowned by one’s biological family.” (I found this on their website in 2023)"...
"The Trevor Project also offers unmonitored chat groups in their “TrevorSpace” community, marketed for participants ages 13-24. This raises an obvious question: why are minors and adults interacting in the same online space?
One group, called “littles,” is self-described as for “people who age regress.” This is a haven for pedophiles. In fact, the Trevor Project was reported to the Riverside, California district attorney after Celeste Fiehler, a local parent, did some investigating. She captured a screenshot of a predatory chat between an adult and a minor seeking a boyfriend.
There have also been other reports highlighting potential safety risks. According to Riverside County Sheriff Chad Bianco, a department member in his 40s was able to register as a 13-year-old and immediately access chat features, including private messaging and user-generated content. Minimal verification requirements and unrestricted communication create a “breeding ground for grooming.”
Former law enforcement officer Kevin Brown conducted a similar test. Posing as a teenager, he quickly connected with other users and was encouraged to move conversations to external platforms such as Discord. Based on his experience investigating human trafficking, moving targets to less-moderated platforms is a common tactic of predators and significantly increases the risk of exploitation.
Concerns also extend to how the Trevor Project responds to individuals who express regret about gender transition."...
"In his testimony, Skinner stated that they were supportive and affirming at first, but when he brought up his transition regret, they hung up on him. A nationally recognized suicide hotline actually hung up on a suicidal teen because he wouldn’t carry out their agenda."
Parents should send a peitition to the AAP. Demanding that the AAP actually give kids evidence based guidelines on gender dysphoria. That their kids deserve best medical practice, not some policy statement that can't even find decent references (well, that is in part because reliable references that find what the AAP policy wants the references to say don't exist).Tell them they need to base them on systematic reviews--and voila--there are many, even ones that have been rigorously assessed in the HHS report.
I did exactly that for about half a year - commented wherever I could on Discord in an non-inflammatory way. I don't know if it helped to seed doubts in kids younger than mine (two of mine are young adults now and are very deep in queer theory). I really hope so.
I had to leave the Discord for the sake of my own sanity. If there were other undercover parents to keep the conversations going, I would have stayed to continue the battle!
A little story of hope for anyone who is reading this: we are fresh out of a seven year hell where my stepdaughter thought she was trans. Her biological mother bought her chest binders at 14 and she moved out of our home when she was 16 to her mothers bc we “didn’t love her” because we would not affirm her delusion and call her a he/him. The world and her mother and stepfather and many other family members lied to her for years. After two years on testosterone, she stopped last October just after she turned 20. She is now fully embracing her womanhood and allllll the parts of herself that she would not accept and shunned. We are all grateful she did not cut up her body. She is growing and learning and realizing what she has lost these last 7 years and what has been done. So many sleepless nights and months of my life (not to mention the heartbreaks my husband experienced throughout) in cumulative time of research deep in this world…my heart goes out to all who are suffering while their children go off… I pray that one day they all return. I see you. I hear you. I feel you. I am you and I’m so sorry any of this ever came into any of our lives.
Keep loving your children, even when it’s the hardest of hard. Have hope ♥️ and most of all, take care of yourself.
Well said ❤️
“Because the true love of a father and a mother does not operate on approval. It operates on commitment.”
This will become my talking point with my son. Beautifully and powerfully stated.
He’s too far gone to detransition but I’m hoping to save him from a truly toxic groomer he thinks he loves.
This is a very profound piece of common sense and truth. Thank you.
I see it as spiritual warfare. Only evil could cause a child to turn against their parents-- the ones whom they always trusted the most. Who else, in the world, would our children be so cruel to? If only they could see the cause of their own manipulation. The illustration with this really struck me! The online brainwashing. Plus the indoctrination in schools and other media. It has proven to be a sick, evil trend, with we parents left holding the bag of agony. The enemy is behind all of this, with his efforts to divide and destroy all that is good-- the family.
You are absolutely correct. I just this morning listened to a video that really started out about the a woman who was in Mexico when the chaos happened there a few weeks ago...but she goes into a lot of what is really going on...if anyone is interesting the Rumble Channel is LostinTransationShow and it was the latest video Simone Live in Mexico. I'm going to listen again. EVERYTHING is connected. The enemy comes to steal kill and destroy and as a spiritual battle it has to be fought spiritually! I truly believe that God is about to move His hand because if we had to fight this on our own it would take forever. There is SO much happening! Keep the faith!! Justice is coming, Vengeance is the Lord's, and judgement begins in the house of the Lord.....there will be a lot of people shocked by what they are about to learn!
I couldn’t agree more with what is in this post. But the idea that the children must choose to see their parents differently than they have been brainwashed to believe, is an idea that must be born from within them. They are in so deep in that this suggestion from an outsider is useless.
So thoughtfully expressed.
An important distinction is being lost. There is a difference between protecting a young person from real harm and encouraging them to cut off their family over disagreement.
In some online spaces, affirmation has replaced guidance. But affirmation without critical thought is not support, it is mindless. Many young people do not have the emotional or financial means to stand alone. The risks are real, including homelessness, instability, and lost years when identity becomes the sole focus.
Development takes time, connection, and the chance for relationships to evolve. Pushing separation as a first response can leave a young person more vulnerable, not less.
This is not a short term decision. It is a long term loss for everyone involved.
Going no contact is a blow, which you cannnot parry and at first an easy victory for the young. It takes some time til the realisation of the loss elaborates itself. There is no way to get rid of the parents without consequences for the soul.
Agreed.
this is why deadname is a trans manipulation against parents
the overreaching for the decades when not being straight meant family exile
but Glitter family is grooming, while chosen family was recovery and community
I pray that one day my son will see that I am not his worst enemy, but actually the one who would give my life for him. I feel so sad for him.
I feel like reading my own thoughts on paper, surreal.
I set a boundary and was called a closed-minded patriarchal oppressor, by a young man who I considered to be my son for 4 years and put my whole heart and soul into, trying to substitute a mother he never really had. No good deed goes unpunished, hey?
Social networks entangled reality and fiction. In such a world emotions and feelings are currency to trade with. There isnt much interest in objectivity.
So good, thank you!
Yes: Maybe the more mature question is: “What do they see that I still cannot see?”
And what do they know that I still don't understand?
Parents are filled with wisdom if a child taps into it.
Subversives have empowered individuation at the expense of parental guidance.
Can you imagine how Jesus felt? It makes you realize how much our love for our child is like Gods love for each of us.
This gave me a thought. Maybe not a good thought, but a glimmer of an idea.
What if the parents took the fight to the battlefield. If this stuff is happening on Discord then join and comment on Discord. Maybe you won't be able to fix your own child, but help another family. Cast doubt upon the trans brainwashing.
Be careful. If your son or daughter finds out about it they may never talk to you again.
Maybe parents can take the fight to The Trevor Project, https://www.thetrevorproject.org/. We on PITT have known it's a groomer group for years but it has become even worse and their hotline is on every student ID card in CA.
"This national organization pretends to be a suicide prevention resource for “marginalized LGBTQ+ youth,” but in reality, it’s more focused on transitioning minors, breaking up families, and gathering vulnerable children for groomers and predators.
The Trevor Project is not some marginal player in the LGBTQ+ machine. It’s heavily funded and, as of this year, every California public school is required to list the organization’s hotline number on student ID cards."...
"Their hotlines and chat groups are full of trained “counselors” who are happy to tell your child that you don’t love them and they should seek out a chosen family, also known as a “glitter family,” instead.
The Trevor Project defines chosen family as:
“A common term in the LGBTQ+ community used to describe people who are not related by birth or marriage yet whose bond is like that of family. Oftentimes, LGBTQ+ people may find and build their chosen family out of necessity, due to a lack of understanding or acceptance, or by being kicked out or disowned by one’s biological family.” (I found this on their website in 2023)"...
"The Trevor Project also offers unmonitored chat groups in their “TrevorSpace” community, marketed for participants ages 13-24. This raises an obvious question: why are minors and adults interacting in the same online space?
One group, called “littles,” is self-described as for “people who age regress.” This is a haven for pedophiles. In fact, the Trevor Project was reported to the Riverside, California district attorney after Celeste Fiehler, a local parent, did some investigating. She captured a screenshot of a predatory chat between an adult and a minor seeking a boyfriend.
There have also been other reports highlighting potential safety risks. According to Riverside County Sheriff Chad Bianco, a department member in his 40s was able to register as a 13-year-old and immediately access chat features, including private messaging and user-generated content. Minimal verification requirements and unrestricted communication create a “breeding ground for grooming.”
Former law enforcement officer Kevin Brown conducted a similar test. Posing as a teenager, he quickly connected with other users and was encouraged to move conversations to external platforms such as Discord. Based on his experience investigating human trafficking, moving targets to less-moderated platforms is a common tactic of predators and significantly increases the risk of exploitation.
Concerns also extend to how the Trevor Project responds to individuals who express regret about gender transition."...
"In his testimony, Skinner stated that they were supportive and affirming at first, but when he brought up his transition regret, they hung up on him. A nationally recognized suicide hotline actually hung up on a suicidal teen because he wouldn’t carry out their agenda."
"A Warning to Parents About The Trevor Project"
https://substack.com/home/post/p-193518908
Parents should send a peitition to the AAP. Demanding that the AAP actually give kids evidence based guidelines on gender dysphoria. That their kids deserve best medical practice, not some policy statement that can't even find decent references (well, that is in part because reliable references that find what the AAP policy wants the references to say don't exist).Tell them they need to base them on systematic reviews--and voila--there are many, even ones that have been rigorously assessed in the HHS report.
AAP works with parents? Ok, let's see it!!
I did exactly that for about half a year - commented wherever I could on Discord in an non-inflammatory way. I don't know if it helped to seed doubts in kids younger than mine (two of mine are young adults now and are very deep in queer theory). I really hope so.
I had to leave the Discord for the sake of my own sanity. If there were other undercover parents to keep the conversations going, I would have stayed to continue the battle!
I think that is a brilliant idea.