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You keep asking yourself, "why did he do this to himself and to us?" The question would be a good one if not for the fact that many thousands of kids are doing exactly the same bizarre thing all over the country and many other countries around the globe.

Your question presumes that your son had an internally-generated reason to abandon his loving family and go on a quest that would destroy his body and his mental health; that he had carefully assessed his options and decided that this was the best path for him. But that's not what happened.

The question really is, "who did this to my son and why, despite the loving foundation we gave him? What made him and thousands of other kids susceptible to the same toxic and depraved ideology? Who encouraged and orchestrated this poisoning of the parent-child bond in such a powerful way that they were able to destroy our relationship with our son?"

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I have endured four birthdays since my son was seduced by the heinous trans cult at 19. On his twenty-third birthday, my husband was unaware of this special day we shared. I did not remind him about his son's birthday, as I knew it would heighten his daily pain and anger. So for the day that would have been celebratory in a sane world, I shouldered alone my tender grief. The birthday of my son is also my birth - day. Along with my son, my memory has been stolen of the joyous welcoming of my healthy infant son. As this essay elequently expresses, for PITT parents there are jolts of even more pain throughout the years that are visceral markers of our cruel alienation from a precious child with whom we once shared a loving relationship. Our primal ambiguous loss is beyond sad.

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