Probably sent by the ex who doesn’t want to pay maintenance or child support and can’t get over being ditched outted for being a pervert or something else vile.
CPS workers will ignore abuse occuring in foster/group homes that they have put children into. It would be inconvenient for the system to acknowledge that any child was worse off after being removed from a home with loving parents. They would rather let a child be physically abused or raped in foster care than admit they may have made a mistake. They will often refuse to place children with loving relatives who are willing and able to take them in.
CPS workers can open a case based off of one anonymous call. It is at their discretion. If the anonymous call is about a home they, or another CPS worker, have placed a child in, it will be ignored. There have been cases of parents getting charged with harassment simply for trying to get their children out of abusive foster care situations. CPS workers face zero consequences, even when they make grave errors in judgement that leads to irreparable harm to children
These are unelected bureaucrats making unilateral decisions that can ruin entire families. They will ALWAYS assume parents are guilty of abuse. They will ALWAYS seek to remove children from homes. They will ALWAYS seek to isolate the child from their parents in order to achieve their goal.
The same level of adjudication should be required to remove a child from a home as is required to get a child back out of the corrupt system.
There are legitimate reasons to remove children from abusive homes but the process we have in place to do that is broken.
This is good advice but also quite alarming. All these essays I have read on PITT over the years and how difficult it has been for most of you dealing with your lost child, while you are trying to mend your broken relationships, the never-ending fear of them taking the cross-sex hormones and God forbid surgery - and on top of it all, the need to worry about CPS showing up at your door! It is all too much! My heart goes out to all of you who are fighting this evil cult. I pray for you and your children, and I beg God at times to please intervene and stop this poison from spreading.
I think we as gen-critical people are, to be honest, doing a completely inadequate job, as a group, of pushing back against this ideology and the menaces pushing it.
I think someone--perhaps I-- need to start a group that sends out short, weekly, well-written public comment or news article for anyone on its mailing list to read at their local county board of supervisors, city council, or school board meeting, on Zoom. A new message to read every week. 1 - 2 minutes in length, or 1/2 - 2/3 of one page, informing electeds and the public about the problems with gender identity ideology, and how it's harming many different groups of people in the US. And always including the name of a source that the listeners can go to, to read more about the issue. Such as this substack, or Reduxx, or the Soxiety for Evidence-Based Medicine, or Our Duty, etc.
That way, everyone on that mailing list or substack can be raising awareness in their own community, weekly, about the problems with this ideology and its pushers, so that we can, together, reach large swaths of the country, one local or regional meeting at a time, raising awareness from our points of view. Because mostly, electeds and the public only hear the views of the bio-phobes, as that's what they read or hear in the news, so they don't understand this subject as we do.
Anyone who writes a public comment could submit it to the collective, or substack group, for us to vet, just as the articles on this substack are vetted, then posted to the substack for all sibscribers to see and use.
That way, each person who signs up to the Biological Reality Public Comment email list or substack, could receive a weekly, well written public comment that they could then read to local electeds at a public meeting that week on Zoom. All they'd need to do would be to look up the times their county, city, or school board officials meets and takes public comment by Zoom, and keep that list of local weekly meetings, times, and Zoom links handy. Then dozens or hundreds of people in their community would then hear that public comment. Every week. In every town that has someone signed up to that email list or substack.
Is there any way that people on Substack can exchange email addresses privately, please? If so, I will arrange an organizing meeting for those interested in writing or vetting public comments, if any of you are interested.
If you are, please reply here that you're interested in participating.
I wouldn't be able to start this right away, it would be a month or two from now, but wanted to put this idea out there and find out if there's interest.
It sounds good ! Most people are totally clueless about this issue . You will not find anything on Facebook regarding this, because it would be against community standards. And the mainstream media doesn’t really touch this at all, except to be proponents of the gender ideology. I’m not quite sure how we would do this and if we would be effective, we would also be targeted.
I agree with all you wrote! When making my public comments, I think I would only state my first and middle initials, and only comment on Zoom rather than in person, for safety.
The first few comments we send out to our list of those who want to make these public comments I think should start by introducing ourselves and our subject, and how we are being censored, bullied, and silenced, so the city council or board electeds we speak to each week know where we're coming from and can feel empathy and sympathy for us and our cause.
Maybe our first public comments, for the first 6 -12 months could only be about how we who are bio-realists are bullied and silenced, and why we're afraid to speak up, to really drive home the message of how viewpoints from across the ideological spectrum are being silenced, and only one viewpoint is allowed anywhere. That could include a different news story each week about teachers, nurses, patients, school kids, etc., fired or kicked out for not using preferred pronouns, why those pronouns are harmful, and why it's important for people to be able to use accurate pronouns.
Imagine your city council hearing 6 months of you providing, weekly, in 26 public comments, examples of people being fired for not using pref. pronouns (PPs).
- Until your city council members truly got it and were downright distraught and angry about "pronoun policing," and the infringement on everyone's right to pronoun free speech while at work.
After 26 weeks of these examples, perhaps other members of the public at your city council meetings would also start speaking up and express anger over infringement of anyone's right to use accurate, honest pronouns in the workplace.
If we just stuck to that one topic, PPs, alone, for 6 - 12 months, we could rile up a lot of potential allies, and bring them out of the woodwork, perhaps with their calling for an end to pronoun policing locally, along with us. And get them generally riled up against bio-phobes, in the process.
This really all did start with bio-phobes telling everyone it's polite to use PPs. The problems with this "etiquette lesson," as a brainwashing technique, guilt trip, manipulation, seemingly harmless request, in fact breaking the etiquette rule to never correct other's manners outside of one's own family, etc. is one of my favorite topics. I could write a lot of public comments just on the harms of PPs!
I think if we just kept raising awareness of how people are being literally harmed by PPs, other bio-phobic harms would start to get criticized more, publicly. Such as this post's topic of bio-realist, non-affirming parents needing to protect themselves against CPS.
This is legalized kidnapping in states like California, Washington and Minnesota now. Thanks for posting this advice! Children can also be removed directly from school, without ever coming home. As trans sanctuary states, kids can run away to them and be put in affirming foster "care". They are considered property of the state now. Be careful! These are the same tactics used in the cultural revolution of communist China, but without the "trans" element. There is practically no escape from the indoctrination of gender ideology that has infested every corner of our institutions! Kamala & Walz deeply support this crap and it will only get worse if they're elected. This will become a national law, I fear and predict. Stay vigilant!!!
My child is an adult, but gender realist parents of minors need their own sanctuary state. A place where they can take their struggling kids and save them from this nightmare.
The call up papers for my youngest daughter came in today. I hid them. Now I am riddled with guilt, if she finds out, our already strained relationship will be doomed. I feel like it's the right thing to do. Delay, delay, delay... Hopefully she desists before the next call up papers.
Sorry, I live in the Netherlands. The gender clinics here don't rush into medicalisation like in the US. They take each case very seriously, and it takes a year of psychoanalysis before they start with medicalisation. Of course, it's all pro trans agenda, whether it's on a fast track or taken a bit slow, the end result is still the same. There is a very long waiting list, and kids have to wait a year or two before seeing any "gender specialist". The call up papers are an invite for her first consultation. I dare not let her go there, because that's a one-way trip to cross sex hormones and mutilating surgery.
Omg! I would pull her from school and take her away from there. You may have to homeschool until she has a reset in her thinking. Scary! No guilt! You're her MOM and your job is to protect your child at all costs! Best of luck- don't let them take her!
It's shocking that such a guide needs to be written, but I know of so many families who had this exact experience, so this is really helpful - thank you for writing this
Ditto here. I know for a fact as some tried to pressure us to put our preschool son on the ADHD/ritalin bandwagon in the early 90's. The 1/4 of my heritage that is crazy Sicilian appeared and they backed down so fast they left sparkles. I literally felt the ghost of a couple of generations back, and realized the crazy Sicilian is useful sometimes. Son is a grown man and doing fine, with his brain intact. The Rules of Engagement here are NONE.
I believe part of the reason Big Trans has spread like vermin is too many continue to play defense, and it's also treated like we're debating the finer points of transportation policy instead of child abuse and mutilation. If I had young children and one was approached by a teacher, medical professional or other adult cannibal lobbying for meat for this cult, I would tell them the same thing I would to anyone trying to physically attack me or any of my family: Anyone who tries to recruit my child will suffer death. Some accuse me of supporting violence, when in actuality I'm trying to give the freaks the chance to change their minds and not commit violence against my child and my family, like a no trespassing sign. I see this as no different than if we had a home invasion.
Incidentally, this page has an unironic link to “violence against LGBTQ people” as a related topic. Ah yes, like the Mormon baptism of the dead, all historical events must now be baptized in the new religion of trans.
Something like 50,000 people were murdered for being “witches”. It went on for hundreds of years. We are not very far removed from this time period. There apparently were legal ways to be acquitted of witchcraft then too. But once an accusation was leveled, you were in very real peril.
“Transphobia“ is the new witchcraft. And the accusations, like in 1600’s Salem MA, are being driven by adolescent girls primarily, although there are plenty of opportunists of every age and gender.
It’s not clear why witchcraft lost its seriousness as an accusation. Presumably as science and rational thought advanced, the Church lost its stranglehold on people’s minds. We are now seeing a new church arise, the Church of Transgenderism, fueled by the Casino of Reality Distortion (social media) Let see that it is crushed as quickly as it arose. It will only die when enough ordinary people stop giving it power.
So be openly transphobic. Push back. It has to stop.
I recently told my friend in France about it. She's a doctor and said she had no idea this was happening! She was shocked, especially at how mostly girls are transitioning now. She was shocked at the school indoctrination too. I assumed the whole world knew about this. She asked me why they aren't hearing about this scourge on children in America. The media outlets are very powerful indeed!
If I had a gender dysphoric child, the first thing I’d do is move to a state that supports parents’ rights over the whims of mentally unstable children. Seriously, is your life in California more important than retaining your family?
Florida is safe, lol! I believe about 8 states have this law so far, including all 3 west coast ones. If Kamala gets elected, this could very well become a national law. Trump, as much as I dislike him, plans to put an end to all trans indoctrination and kidnapping!
I dunno.... During Trump's first term trans cult grew like a wild fire. Obviously, he doesn't believe in any of it but I doubt he cares enough to put a stop to it (or if it he has the capacity). I do agree that Harris would make it much worse though.
I believe he would stop it if he could, but he has to first get re-elected. I believe the Trans Cult, along with other wildfires started during his term, were purposely started to kneecap his effectiveness and re-election. His choice of Vance supports my belief. Vance is a very smart caveman, imo, and he chose a very smart woman as his wife. Trump is also surrounding himself with a different team this time around: Tulsi, Vivek, RFK, Burgum, Musk, etc. I am hopeful this November.
Tulsi is an honest and admirable and intelligent woman, despite the fact that she has been demonized by so many on the left. The fact that she has teamed up with Trump makes me wonder if there is something about him that I don’t know.
Exactly! I believe he'll do much better this time, if elected. He's learned a thing or two and is a bit humbled now, by the rule of law and attempt on his life. I have a lot of confidence in Vance. He has strong family values, supports IVF, is not completely against abortion- just late term. Kamala supports late term abortions up to the time of birth and also (in CA), allowing botched aborted babies to live up to 28 days in agony, for the harvesting of their organs. Demonic!
It started with Obama's administration. Trump and J.D. Vance have stated that they are against this and wish to end the corrupt funding of the dept. of education, as we know it. He will probably leave these decisions up to the states at worst, like his plans for abortion laws. We have two terrible choices for candidates, in my opinion. Kamala is a radical Marxist and communist, plus has been worthless for 3.5 years. We're in big trouble if she wins. She's also not good with foreign policy or very intelligent. I'm reluctantly voting for 45 this time, simply for his better policies for our country in this moment.
It’s really a hard call! I’m very conflicted. Maybe a Republican Congress would check any bad laws that Harris/Walz would try to pass would be stopped by Republicans. Certainly her stance on trans ideology is very disturbing.
I understand how you feel. I would suggest voting for your local candidates, especially those relating to the school boards. Try to get information about what school board candidates' positions are ahead of time. I think these local elections are more important than ever now.
Thank you. Do I understand you correctly that 8 states *have* a law allowing CPS to take kids from non-affirming parents, or *don't* have a law allowing CPS to do so please?
Regarding Harris and 45, that's chilling that this could become federal law.
However, there is no way I could vote for 45, as, for starters, this could end up being our last election, period. And he would destroy the climate, etc.
So I'm pushing hard for Harris. But we have to be really telling her campaign, and after she's elected, on her all the time, to wake up and stop pandering to the gender identity bio-phobes. It's a terrible choice to have to make, but the climate and keeping a semblance of elections in the US have much farther reaching consequences, so they and Harris get my vote.
Please see my comment, below, starting with "I have a suggestion." Except I started it a typo, typo, "O have a suggestion." (Facepalm.)
I’m with you. I can’t vote for Trump after January 6, 2021, period. And he’d be even less likely to go quietly in 2028 at the age of 82 and with all pressure of reelection removed. However, I have little respect for Harris either. She’s done nothing noteworthy in any of her previous positions. I may skip the top of the ticket, not that it matters in this Blue state.
In CA, Gov. Newsom did veto a law that would have had the state take the side of the affirming parent in custody disputes between parents in different states . That is the only pro-parent legislation he has supported.
Re CPS, Erin Friday’s group has some good advice on this. She basically shut the door in their face, pulled her daughter from school, and ultimately moved. They have resources for parents who are dealing with this.
Thank you. That's good to know about Newsom. And I so admire Erin Friday. I love her knowledge of the law and confidence to shut her door. Lol. And to move.
My #1 reason to support Harris is to prevent 45 from getting into that office. Second is for women to fi ally break that glass ceiling. The first woman to do so will not be a radical. I have long suspected it would have to be a a Republican woman to do so. It would be incredible if anyone as far left as Harris could do it. And she's not far left.
The role of thr first woman getting onto that office is to break that anti-woman stranglehold among thr public, and getting everyone accustomed to having a woman US president.
It's like with Obama. His job (unfortunately) was simply to be a black man in the White House, to break that glass ceiling and not have any scandals. Thats the role Harris would play. Anything else would be gravy.
I think even in Blue California, we cannot underestimate how unwilling people are to vote for women. To ever break that glass ceiling, every one of our votes will count. Especially yours :)
So yours is a spite vote and a gender vote. I hope you examine both sides' policies and the fact that Harris has done nothing good in 3.5 years- why would she suddenly be effective? She's done more harm, with Biden, than good. 4-8 more years of her and we're doomed. I have to look past Trump's personal issues while remembering that our country was actually in better shape when he was in office. If Kamala gets to control prices on groceries, for example, we're headed toward food deserts, disappearance of grocery items and stores, higher prices for anything that is available, and many will actually starve. That's how it's done in communist countries and Kamala is a Marxist/Communist. More kids will end up transitioning medically and the age of consent will be lowered. They already want to allow 16 year olds to vote. Many 18 y.o.'s aren't even knowledgeable to vote yet! Buyer beware.
I would be very careful about voting for Harris, Walz. I have been a lifelong Democrat, but his is an issue that will affect millions of children and parents! Both she and Walz are 100% behind the gender ideology, and once in office , how will anyone stop them from doing harm with federal laws that uphold gender ideology? If you do decide nevertheless to vote for them , at least vote Republican for senators and other candidates who may be able to stop this insanity.
I wouldn't remotely consider voting for anyone other than Harris. Trump was arguably the worst, most demonic president in this country's history, he wants to be a dictator like those he admires around the world, and this time he will set things up so he can get a third term, and we won't be able to vote him out.
At the end of this clip, Rep. Zoe Lofgren sums it up perfectly:
Any policy issues are not important. They can be changed. The overarching issue is that we won't be able to get him out of office, and we won't be able to vote to make changes to address policy issues. The only thing that matters is keeping him out of office.
The Supreme Court is on our side. The Title XI rewrite is going down. I do think the legal tide is turning. I have no idea about Harris’s personal feelings but I think she sees which way the wind is blowing.
Do you actually believe we had an election in 2020? We had a black hole sucking taxpayer dollars in to sway the election with Russia, Russia, Russia! We had 51 former intelligence prostitutes sign a letter stating the Biden laptop was Russian disinformation. We had the entire MSM brothel turned into a democrat campaign. None of these hookers have been prosecuted for treason. We, including you, are the only ones that can slow down climate destruction. Not very many are willing to live close to the land and cut their energy demands. Our education system, which is already terrible and will sink further with Harris and Waltz, is not able to produce the many scientists and engineers we need for R&D in materials science and recycling.
Beedlebug, do you know where per capita energy consumption in the United States? You msy be surprised. I'll let you know if you'd like to venture a guess. I do agree with you that climate protection is massively influenced by our individual lifestyle choices.
And, sorry if this offends, but Kamala has a terrible track record, is a Marxist & communist, supports medical transition of minors, indoctrination in schools and other institutions, is solely responsible for our border & fentynyl crises, intends to tax everyone to death- even the middle & lower class, through various indirect methods, and was a 2-bit prosecutor of mostly black people for possession of marijuana and other drugs. She slept her way into politics with SF mayor, Willie Brown- a married man, 30 years her senior! She cannot keep a team because she bullies them, unreasonably, out of existence. As the most radical leftist to ever run for office, along with Tim Walz who is of the same ilk, she will destroy our democracy and country quickly. She had zero votes to be elected as a candidate- so much for democracy already! She's a phoney baloney with questionable intelligence and refuses to give interviews, minus the one with CNN, prerecorded, that lasted only 14 minutes and had over half of it edited out, at her campaign's orders! That's just the tip of the ice berg with Kamala, who will flip her stances on a dime to appease whoever she needs to, in the moment. Trump is awful, but we were better off with him, as a nation, and he's direct with his intentions and actions. God help America.
Yes- I have read of 8 states that have these laws in place. The west coast, MN, ME, and I can't remember the others- possibly NY and AZ? Crazy times we live in!
Thank you, Chris. I love kids, but never wanted my own. And to be honest, I'm grateful to not be a parent given the risks to both parents and kids nowadays due to this ideology.
It is. Can you write a children’s book to tell your story to the little ones? We desperately need a balanced perspective to “I am Jazz” to hit the shelves. Self publish on Amazon. You are an amazing and gifted writer. Your story has touched so many people. Need help doing it should you so choose, reach out.
Probably sent by the ex who doesn’t want to pay maintenance or child support and can’t get over being ditched outted for being a pervert or something else vile.
CPS workers will ignore abuse occuring in foster/group homes that they have put children into. It would be inconvenient for the system to acknowledge that any child was worse off after being removed from a home with loving parents. They would rather let a child be physically abused or raped in foster care than admit they may have made a mistake. They will often refuse to place children with loving relatives who are willing and able to take them in.
CPS workers can open a case based off of one anonymous call. It is at their discretion. If the anonymous call is about a home they, or another CPS worker, have placed a child in, it will be ignored. There have been cases of parents getting charged with harassment simply for trying to get their children out of abusive foster care situations. CPS workers face zero consequences, even when they make grave errors in judgement that leads to irreparable harm to children
These are unelected bureaucrats making unilateral decisions that can ruin entire families. They will ALWAYS assume parents are guilty of abuse. They will ALWAYS seek to remove children from homes. They will ALWAYS seek to isolate the child from their parents in order to achieve their goal.
The same level of adjudication should be required to remove a child from a home as is required to get a child back out of the corrupt system.
There are legitimate reasons to remove children from abusive homes but the process we have in place to do that is broken.
This is good advice but also quite alarming. All these essays I have read on PITT over the years and how difficult it has been for most of you dealing with your lost child, while you are trying to mend your broken relationships, the never-ending fear of them taking the cross-sex hormones and God forbid surgery - and on top of it all, the need to worry about CPS showing up at your door! It is all too much! My heart goes out to all of you who are fighting this evil cult. I pray for you and your children, and I beg God at times to please intervene and stop this poison from spreading.
O have a suggestion.
As this is chilling.
I think we as gen-critical people are, to be honest, doing a completely inadequate job, as a group, of pushing back against this ideology and the menaces pushing it.
I think someone--perhaps I-- need to start a group that sends out short, weekly, well-written public comment or news article for anyone on its mailing list to read at their local county board of supervisors, city council, or school board meeting, on Zoom. A new message to read every week. 1 - 2 minutes in length, or 1/2 - 2/3 of one page, informing electeds and the public about the problems with gender identity ideology, and how it's harming many different groups of people in the US. And always including the name of a source that the listeners can go to, to read more about the issue. Such as this substack, or Reduxx, or the Soxiety for Evidence-Based Medicine, or Our Duty, etc.
That way, everyone on that mailing list or substack can be raising awareness in their own community, weekly, about the problems with this ideology and its pushers, so that we can, together, reach large swaths of the country, one local or regional meeting at a time, raising awareness from our points of view. Because mostly, electeds and the public only hear the views of the bio-phobes, as that's what they read or hear in the news, so they don't understand this subject as we do.
Anyone who writes a public comment could submit it to the collective, or substack group, for us to vet, just as the articles on this substack are vetted, then posted to the substack for all sibscribers to see and use.
That way, each person who signs up to the Biological Reality Public Comment email list or substack, could receive a weekly, well written public comment that they could then read to local electeds at a public meeting that week on Zoom. All they'd need to do would be to look up the times their county, city, or school board officials meets and takes public comment by Zoom, and keep that list of local weekly meetings, times, and Zoom links handy. Then dozens or hundreds of people in their community would then hear that public comment. Every week. In every town that has someone signed up to that email list or substack.
Is there any way that people on Substack can exchange email addresses privately, please? If so, I will arrange an organizing meeting for those interested in writing or vetting public comments, if any of you are interested.
If you are, please reply here that you're interested in participating.
I wouldn't be able to start this right away, it would be a month or two from now, but wanted to put this idea out there and find out if there's interest.
It sounds good ! Most people are totally clueless about this issue . You will not find anything on Facebook regarding this, because it would be against community standards. And the mainstream media doesn’t really touch this at all, except to be proponents of the gender ideology. I’m not quite sure how we would do this and if we would be effective, we would also be targeted.
Thanks for your reply, Gerda.
I agree with all you wrote! When making my public comments, I think I would only state my first and middle initials, and only comment on Zoom rather than in person, for safety.
The first few comments we send out to our list of those who want to make these public comments I think should start by introducing ourselves and our subject, and how we are being censored, bullied, and silenced, so the city council or board electeds we speak to each week know where we're coming from and can feel empathy and sympathy for us and our cause.
Maybe our first public comments, for the first 6 -12 months could only be about how we who are bio-realists are bullied and silenced, and why we're afraid to speak up, to really drive home the message of how viewpoints from across the ideological spectrum are being silenced, and only one viewpoint is allowed anywhere. That could include a different news story each week about teachers, nurses, patients, school kids, etc., fired or kicked out for not using preferred pronouns, why those pronouns are harmful, and why it's important for people to be able to use accurate pronouns.
Imagine your city council hearing 6 months of you providing, weekly, in 26 public comments, examples of people being fired for not using pref. pronouns (PPs).
- Until your city council members truly got it and were downright distraught and angry about "pronoun policing," and the infringement on everyone's right to pronoun free speech while at work.
After 26 weeks of these examples, perhaps other members of the public at your city council meetings would also start speaking up and express anger over infringement of anyone's right to use accurate, honest pronouns in the workplace.
If we just stuck to that one topic, PPs, alone, for 6 - 12 months, we could rile up a lot of potential allies, and bring them out of the woodwork, perhaps with their calling for an end to pronoun policing locally, along with us. And get them generally riled up against bio-phobes, in the process.
This really all did start with bio-phobes telling everyone it's polite to use PPs. The problems with this "etiquette lesson," as a brainwashing technique, guilt trip, manipulation, seemingly harmless request, in fact breaking the etiquette rule to never correct other's manners outside of one's own family, etc. is one of my favorite topics. I could write a lot of public comments just on the harms of PPs!
I think if we just kept raising awareness of how people are being literally harmed by PPs, other bio-phobic harms would start to get criticized more, publicly. Such as this post's topic of bio-realist, non-affirming parents needing to protect themselves against CPS.
Your thoughts?
This Irish teacher, alone, could provide us with three public comments.
Cheers.
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This is legalized kidnapping in states like California, Washington and Minnesota now. Thanks for posting this advice! Children can also be removed directly from school, without ever coming home. As trans sanctuary states, kids can run away to them and be put in affirming foster "care". They are considered property of the state now. Be careful! These are the same tactics used in the cultural revolution of communist China, but without the "trans" element. There is practically no escape from the indoctrination of gender ideology that has infested every corner of our institutions! Kamala & Walz deeply support this crap and it will only get worse if they're elected. This will become a national law, I fear and predict. Stay vigilant!!!
My child is an adult, but gender realist parents of minors need their own sanctuary state. A place where they can take their struggling kids and save them from this nightmare.
That's a great idea, Moomin.
A sanctuary state for gender realist parents needing to protect their kids.
The call up papers for my youngest daughter came in today. I hid them. Now I am riddled with guilt, if she finds out, our already strained relationship will be doomed. I feel like it's the right thing to do. Delay, delay, delay... Hopefully she desists before the next call up papers.
what's a call up paper? (honest question. sorry if it's a common knowledge)
Sorry, I live in the Netherlands. The gender clinics here don't rush into medicalisation like in the US. They take each case very seriously, and it takes a year of psychoanalysis before they start with medicalisation. Of course, it's all pro trans agenda, whether it's on a fast track or taken a bit slow, the end result is still the same. There is a very long waiting list, and kids have to wait a year or two before seeing any "gender specialist". The call up papers are an invite for her first consultation. I dare not let her go there, because that's a one-way trip to cross sex hormones and mutilating surgery.
Thanks for explaining. I think you did the right thing by hiding them, don't feel guilty.
Omg! I would pull her from school and take her away from there. You may have to homeschool until she has a reset in her thinking. Scary! No guilt! You're her MOM and your job is to protect your child at all costs! Best of luck- don't let them take her!
Concise, empowering, loving and protective. Thanks for writing this, and God Bless!
Thank you for writing/posting this.
It’s so, so sad the need exists.
❤️🙏🕊️
It's frightening that we should even need this kind of advice.
It's shocking that such a guide needs to be written, but I know of so many families who had this exact experience, so this is really helpful - thank you for writing this
That is heartbreaking.
If my son was still young and some captured cult members tried to recruit him by force, I'd most likely go to jail. This is Twilight Zone material. 🤬
Ditto here. I know for a fact as some tried to pressure us to put our preschool son on the ADHD/ritalin bandwagon in the early 90's. The 1/4 of my heritage that is crazy Sicilian appeared and they backed down so fast they left sparkles. I literally felt the ghost of a couple of generations back, and realized the crazy Sicilian is useful sometimes. Son is a grown man and doing fine, with his brain intact. The Rules of Engagement here are NONE.
Half Italian and French here. That could be it😎
I believe part of the reason Big Trans has spread like vermin is too many continue to play defense, and it's also treated like we're debating the finer points of transportation policy instead of child abuse and mutilation. If I had young children and one was approached by a teacher, medical professional or other adult cannibal lobbying for meat for this cult, I would tell them the same thing I would to anyone trying to physically attack me or any of my family: Anyone who tries to recruit my child will suffer death. Some accuse me of supporting violence, when in actuality I'm trying to give the freaks the chance to change their minds and not commit violence against my child and my family, like a no trespassing sign. I see this as no different than if we had a home invasion.
The historical parallels are striking.
If you want to see just how far societies will go in pursuit of irrational beliefs, spend a few minutes reading https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Witch_trials_in_the_early_modern_period
Incidentally, this page has an unironic link to “violence against LGBTQ people” as a related topic. Ah yes, like the Mormon baptism of the dead, all historical events must now be baptized in the new religion of trans.
Something like 50,000 people were murdered for being “witches”. It went on for hundreds of years. We are not very far removed from this time period. There apparently were legal ways to be acquitted of witchcraft then too. But once an accusation was leveled, you were in very real peril.
“Transphobia“ is the new witchcraft. And the accusations, like in 1600’s Salem MA, are being driven by adolescent girls primarily, although there are plenty of opportunists of every age and gender.
It’s not clear why witchcraft lost its seriousness as an accusation. Presumably as science and rational thought advanced, the Church lost its stranglehold on people’s minds. We are now seeing a new church arise, the Church of Transgenderism, fueled by the Casino of Reality Distortion (social media) Let see that it is crushed as quickly as it arose. It will only die when enough ordinary people stop giving it power.
So be openly transphobic. Push back. It has to stop.
It's official, we live in a dystopia.
Good God ! I thought things were pretty bad here across the pond but this is appalling . It should be a serious crime - rape .
I recently told my friend in France about it. She's a doctor and said she had no idea this was happening! She was shocked, especially at how mostly girls are transitioning now. She was shocked at the school indoctrination too. I assumed the whole world knew about this. She asked me why they aren't hearing about this scourge on children in America. The media outlets are very powerful indeed!
If I had a gender dysphoric child, the first thing I’d do is move to a state that supports parents’ rights over the whims of mentally unstable children. Seriously, is your life in California more important than retaining your family?
Greqt advice. Which states are those, please?
Florida is safe, lol! I believe about 8 states have this law so far, including all 3 west coast ones. If Kamala gets elected, this could very well become a national law. Trump, as much as I dislike him, plans to put an end to all trans indoctrination and kidnapping!
I dunno.... During Trump's first term trans cult grew like a wild fire. Obviously, he doesn't believe in any of it but I doubt he cares enough to put a stop to it (or if it he has the capacity). I do agree that Harris would make it much worse though.
I believe he would stop it if he could, but he has to first get re-elected. I believe the Trans Cult, along with other wildfires started during his term, were purposely started to kneecap his effectiveness and re-election. His choice of Vance supports my belief. Vance is a very smart caveman, imo, and he chose a very smart woman as his wife. Trump is also surrounding himself with a different team this time around: Tulsi, Vivek, RFK, Burgum, Musk, etc. I am hopeful this November.
Tulsi is an honest and admirable and intelligent woman, despite the fact that she has been demonized by so many on the left. The fact that she has teamed up with Trump makes me wonder if there is something about him that I don’t know.
Exactly! I believe he'll do much better this time, if elected. He's learned a thing or two and is a bit humbled now, by the rule of law and attempt on his life. I have a lot of confidence in Vance. He has strong family values, supports IVF, is not completely against abortion- just late term. Kamala supports late term abortions up to the time of birth and also (in CA), allowing botched aborted babies to live up to 28 days in agony, for the harvesting of their organs. Demonic!
I support IVF with a limit of no donating embryos for research. They are either implanted or destroyed.
It started with Obama's administration. Trump and J.D. Vance have stated that they are against this and wish to end the corrupt funding of the dept. of education, as we know it. He will probably leave these decisions up to the states at worst, like his plans for abortion laws. We have two terrible choices for candidates, in my opinion. Kamala is a radical Marxist and communist, plus has been worthless for 3.5 years. We're in big trouble if she wins. She's also not good with foreign policy or very intelligent. I'm reluctantly voting for 45 this time, simply for his better policies for our country in this moment.
It’s really a hard call! I’m very conflicted. Maybe a Republican Congress would check any bad laws that Harris/Walz would try to pass would be stopped by Republicans. Certainly her stance on trans ideology is very disturbing.
Yep. The current election cycle is a clusterfudge. I am sitting this one out.
I understand how you feel. I would suggest voting for your local candidates, especially those relating to the school boards. Try to get information about what school board candidates' positions are ahead of time. I think these local elections are more important than ever now.
Thank you. Do I understand you correctly that 8 states *have* a law allowing CPS to take kids from non-affirming parents, or *don't* have a law allowing CPS to do so please?
Regarding Harris and 45, that's chilling that this could become federal law.
However, there is no way I could vote for 45, as, for starters, this could end up being our last election, period. And he would destroy the climate, etc.
So I'm pushing hard for Harris. But we have to be really telling her campaign, and after she's elected, on her all the time, to wake up and stop pandering to the gender identity bio-phobes. It's a terrible choice to have to make, but the climate and keeping a semblance of elections in the US have much farther reaching consequences, so they and Harris get my vote.
Please see my comment, below, starting with "I have a suggestion." Except I started it a typo, typo, "O have a suggestion." (Facepalm.)
Thank you.
I’m with you. I can’t vote for Trump after January 6, 2021, period. And he’d be even less likely to go quietly in 2028 at the age of 82 and with all pressure of reelection removed. However, I have little respect for Harris either. She’s done nothing noteworthy in any of her previous positions. I may skip the top of the ticket, not that it matters in this Blue state.
In CA, Gov. Newsom did veto a law that would have had the state take the side of the affirming parent in custody disputes between parents in different states . That is the only pro-parent legislation he has supported.
Re CPS, Erin Friday’s group has some good advice on this. She basically shut the door in their face, pulled her daughter from school, and ultimately moved. They have resources for parents who are dealing with this.
Thank you. That's good to know about Newsom. And I so admire Erin Friday. I love her knowledge of the law and confidence to shut her door. Lol. And to move.
My #1 reason to support Harris is to prevent 45 from getting into that office. Second is for women to fi ally break that glass ceiling. The first woman to do so will not be a radical. I have long suspected it would have to be a a Republican woman to do so. It would be incredible if anyone as far left as Harris could do it. And she's not far left.
The role of thr first woman getting onto that office is to break that anti-woman stranglehold among thr public, and getting everyone accustomed to having a woman US president.
It's like with Obama. His job (unfortunately) was simply to be a black man in the White House, to break that glass ceiling and not have any scandals. Thats the role Harris would play. Anything else would be gravy.
I think even in Blue California, we cannot underestimate how unwilling people are to vote for women. To ever break that glass ceiling, every one of our votes will count. Especially yours :)
So yours is a spite vote and a gender vote. I hope you examine both sides' policies and the fact that Harris has done nothing good in 3.5 years- why would she suddenly be effective? She's done more harm, with Biden, than good. 4-8 more years of her and we're doomed. I have to look past Trump's personal issues while remembering that our country was actually in better shape when he was in office. If Kamala gets to control prices on groceries, for example, we're headed toward food deserts, disappearance of grocery items and stores, higher prices for anything that is available, and many will actually starve. That's how it's done in communist countries and Kamala is a Marxist/Communist. More kids will end up transitioning medically and the age of consent will be lowered. They already want to allow 16 year olds to vote. Many 18 y.o.'s aren't even knowledgeable to vote yet! Buyer beware.
I would be very careful about voting for Harris, Walz. I have been a lifelong Democrat, but his is an issue that will affect millions of children and parents! Both she and Walz are 100% behind the gender ideology, and once in office , how will anyone stop them from doing harm with federal laws that uphold gender ideology? If you do decide nevertheless to vote for them , at least vote Republican for senators and other candidates who may be able to stop this insanity.
I wouldn't remotely consider voting for anyone other than Harris. Trump was arguably the worst, most demonic president in this country's history, he wants to be a dictator like those he admires around the world, and this time he will set things up so he can get a third term, and we won't be able to vote him out.
At the end of this clip, Rep. Zoe Lofgren sums it up perfectly:
Any policy issues are not important. They can be changed. The overarching issue is that we won't be able to get him out of office, and we won't be able to vote to make changes to address policy issues. The only thing that matters is keeping him out of office.
She said it far better, but that's the jist.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oilkCKXGnu0
The Supreme Court is on our side. The Title XI rewrite is going down. I do think the legal tide is turning. I have no idea about Harris’s personal feelings but I think she sees which way the wind is blowing.
Anna, on what do you vase that the Title IX rewrite is going down? I haven't heard anything either way.
Do you actually believe we had an election in 2020? We had a black hole sucking taxpayer dollars in to sway the election with Russia, Russia, Russia! We had 51 former intelligence prostitutes sign a letter stating the Biden laptop was Russian disinformation. We had the entire MSM brothel turned into a democrat campaign. None of these hookers have been prosecuted for treason. We, including you, are the only ones that can slow down climate destruction. Not very many are willing to live close to the land and cut their energy demands. Our education system, which is already terrible and will sink further with Harris and Waltz, is not able to produce the many scientists and engineers we need for R&D in materials science and recycling.
Beedlebug, do you know where per capita energy consumption in the United States? You msy be surprised. I'll let you know if you'd like to venture a guess. I do agree with you that climate protection is massively influenced by our individual lifestyle choices.
*where per capita energy consumption is the highest?
And, sorry if this offends, but Kamala has a terrible track record, is a Marxist & communist, supports medical transition of minors, indoctrination in schools and other institutions, is solely responsible for our border & fentynyl crises, intends to tax everyone to death- even the middle & lower class, through various indirect methods, and was a 2-bit prosecutor of mostly black people for possession of marijuana and other drugs. She slept her way into politics with SF mayor, Willie Brown- a married man, 30 years her senior! She cannot keep a team because she bullies them, unreasonably, out of existence. As the most radical leftist to ever run for office, along with Tim Walz who is of the same ilk, she will destroy our democracy and country quickly. She had zero votes to be elected as a candidate- so much for democracy already! She's a phoney baloney with questionable intelligence and refuses to give interviews, minus the one with CNN, prerecorded, that lasted only 14 minutes and had over half of it edited out, at her campaign's orders! That's just the tip of the ice berg with Kamala, who will flip her stances on a dime to appease whoever she needs to, in the moment. Trump is awful, but we were better off with him, as a nation, and he's direct with his intentions and actions. God help America.
Yes- I have read of 8 states that have these laws in place. The west coast, MN, ME, and I can't remember the others- possibly NY and AZ? Crazy times we live in!
Thank you, Chris. I love kids, but never wanted my own. And to be honest, I'm grateful to not be a parent given the risks to both parents and kids nowadays due to this ideology.
It's truly frightening.
This is utterly chilling. Thank you for outlining the guidance, and I hope none of us has to resort to it.
It is. Can you write a children’s book to tell your story to the little ones? We desperately need a balanced perspective to “I am Jazz” to hit the shelves. Self publish on Amazon. You are an amazing and gifted writer. Your story has touched so many people. Need help doing it should you so choose, reach out.