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AW's avatar
Nov 11Edited

My son was 21 when he met up with “friends” from a Discord “alphabet” group. They offered him their medication until he could get in with an affirming physician.

He has now gained 50lbs & should be on high blood pressure medication NOT cross-sex hormones. The internist prescribing them doesn’t address it therefore my son doesn’t think it’s a problem.

I am grateful we do get along with the “agree to disagree” stance on the MTF ideology. My prayer is for him to stop the meds & let them clear his system, get the true healing his mind and body needs to progress as a functional member of society who is truly happy in his own life. I also pray that he finds a woman who loves him and accepts him despite all he has put his body through. *I say this b/c he says he is a lesbian (insert eyeroll)

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My son went through puberty, had a girlfriend in High School, a successful career after college and moved to a very liberal city out of state where his very liberal girlfriend had moved to. She was a year older. They became engaged when he was 24. I was excited.

He was very involved in gaming, Discord and anime. Sadly too involved.I believe his fiance encouraged his transition along with people he met on discord. Less than a year into their engagement I noticed changes. He seemed a little more distant. So did his fiance. She grew cold. He was growing his hair longer. I didn’t think too much about it though. Especially that!! He never had the qualities of being a girl. After his last visit though he sent me a text saying he was part of the transgender community after going silent for a couple of months . No discussing anything. I don’t hear from him anymore. About a year after that text his fiance left him for another transgender friend. M to F. She’s says she’s a lesbian. It will be 3 yrs this June since I heard from my son and my heart is broken.

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