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Apr 13·edited Apr 13

I'm right with your last paragraph. Will I ever get my son back? I am not hopeful at this point. He changed his name and gender and no longer wants a normal, loving parent-child relationship with me and my husband. He is likely taking hormones and having surgeries. He was brainwashed during COVID via social media when he was only 25 years old and likely was suffering from depression, along with having ADHD, and possibly autism spectrum disorders, mood disorder, and such. He had just started to emerge from his sheltered life in school, college, and family life, and was in transition as he was growing up in his 20s. This is a time when young adults are trying new ideas to find themselves. Why were these life-changing harms pushed on him? Those who are doing this to our youth should be held criminally responsible for creating irreversible damages. This is and will be totally devastating for him, his life, and for our family.

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Yes how to mitigate the harm that has been done. On so many levels!

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Apr 11·edited Apr 11

I have long suspected that the reason (cause) behind so-called gender dysphoria is society’s refusal to accept members who possess physical/social/spiritual qualities of not just one gender but both. Many Native American tribes cherished their two-spirit members. They considered them gifted. Rather than ostracizing two-spirits, they recognized their unique talents and gave them important roles to play in society. If only our society valued two-spirits like that, we would all be okay.

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We live in a time when facts are subordinate to tribal identity. If read with an open mind this and the WPATH email leak would inspire investigative reporters to care. But as I watched both land with heads turned away from the evidence and the facts disappear down the memory hole, I have diminished hopes that anyone will ever back off their non-evidence based assumptions. It means admitting error and that there are consequences to that error.

The activists do their "left handed" comparison, while the better graph is iPhone adoption. (You don't have to ignore the before time on the graph or the industrial revolution in order for that to be an interesting correlation)

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We actually won’t get it back. We will, however, be more willing to push back and state (restate) our position with those around us who have denied our truth. 388 pages of what we knew to be true is significant. we will get much deserved validation, while we weep for what we’ve lost.

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What an excellent question...but who really has the answer? How do we return to our lives before this cult barged into our world and stole our children? I am afraid that too much has been lost and that there is no normalcy to go back to. How can all the damage be undone? Families and relationships have been severed, destroyed and ruined. How can our pain be forgotten? I am thrilled that the Cass Report has been published and I hope it will make a difference for the future of innocent children not yet trapped. The truth will be devastating, but will our lost children be able to cope? I just want accountability and pray that the wrong will be made right.

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At last the Cass report tells the truth. Here in the UK the fight goes on. Let's hope victims start to sue those unprofessional monsters who attacked their children and young people.

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It's a shame the report uses the language of magical 'gender' ideology and still assumes there is something to this gender nonsense. It doesn't question the concept of 'being born into the wrong body', or that these children should be treated as the opposite sex. I got the feeling the authors were forced into giving in, reluctantly.

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you are right. i will never get my daughter back.

I can only hope that all of those complicit will get massively suited in this life and burn in hell after.

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I hope we see some absolutely massive class-action lawsuits against physicians, medical groups, and all the ancillary mental health and social work support service providers who facilitated this barbaric madness under the banner of their barking-mad - "woke virtuousness"

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I really do not believe that for males they have gender dysphoria, but fetishize women and want access to Lesbians. They want to wear our skin. If you ask them what, why they thing they are women, I've never yet heard an answer that is not about fetish and objectification of females.

For girls and women.... well, pick any group who is treated as inferior, with less rights and respect, and is grotesquely pornified in the media and most places, and who wouldn't want to have the rights and privileges of their oppressor? I sure would like to.

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And will any of the unethical practitioners who were ideologically-driven and not evidence-driven who caused unnecessary harm to minors be held accountable?

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While some good news in this and we will take all the good news we can... as fast as these stories are coming out and the detransition stories, the gender cult mafia is quickly working to suppress these stories and studies and also pass laws to make sure doctors, counselors, hospitals, etc. are NOT held responsible or liable in any way for such irresponsible, unscientific and harmful treatments. Completely protected If a patient / family later decide to sue them because of the horrific damage or even death they have caused, and the patient / family have NO RECOURSE. We already see all the hoops and political pressure to divert billions of dollars (much of our tax $ and rising insurance premiums) to "gender affirming care" BUT NOTHING for these poor souls who later realize what a terrible mistake they made and need help to detransition... they are met with scorn, ridicule and not one penny to help them then from these so called "caring' doctors and "community"... so much for really caring about these people... it's all an agenda and our dear children and youth are paying the price for being pawns in the game. Only GOD can avenge this evil, heal, redeem and bring beauty from such ashes. I pray HE does soon!!!!

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This group posts such effective and powerful stories that one would think it is enough to stop the current practice of gender-affirmation for at least those under 18, if not the entire population. But you are careful to avoid moral debates, recognizing the wide range of views held by your readers. Today, although I am not a Catholic nor bound by the Pope’s statements, I was impressed by recent writings which specifically condemned gender ideology and sex changes. Would someone in this writing group be willing to study this, and report on it, and on whether it an an effective strategy to roll back our current crisis?

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Though Cass Report is welcome news & can only hope slows, then stops medical mal practice given the name 'gender affirming' care

Tis cold comfort

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