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GenderRealistMom's avatar

"My parents seem to have assumed over the years that, because I am a TERF I don’t accept my cousin as a human being" Sorry to be harsh, but it seems to me that actually you are the only one in the family who fully DOES accept her as a human being and not a political cause.

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Bless the author for fighting for sanity. Many know my daughter had top surgery and has been on T for years, bearded and breastless. That she is estranged from us, her mom and dad. Well, my wife's mom passed away last weekend, this was my daughters grandmother of course, and they were close. Grandmom never gave in to the pronouns and name, and they still had a mostly respectful relationship.

So, I saw my Daughter for the 1st time in several years last weekend due to this very tragic event, my most important mission was to make damn sure my daughter knows that I love her and will always be there for her. We don't use names or pronouns which is very awkward to converse and I have to catch myself sometimes. This is our way of trying like to hell to talk to her.

The venom she has for us especially her Mom is visceral and shows in ugly ways during normal conversations. I will never understand how my daughter can still demand, at nearly every opportunity, that we, her parents, call her a he and use incorrect pronouns. It is very painful to hear this from her and is all I can do not to erupt. She can fool some people sometimes and I have witnessed it many times, and she gets a rush off of it I can sense it, it is really sick and delusional. I wish my daughter would just allow us to call her correctly using the name we lovingly gave her and the correct pronouns.

It is just so sad to me to see this beautiful young woman just destroyed by trans surgeries and testosterone. This is my daughter who is 30 YO.

Well my mission is accomplished I managed to get several I love you's and many hugs in spite of her blinding hate towards us, she is like a poisonous toad where you have to be careful and walk around on egg shells.

She is back home now to Colorado where she lives. At least I now know, that she too knows, that her dad loves her.

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