If everyone got as angry as you, the problem might get solved. You are a great example to others to stop bottling it up.

You say that you can't trust your friends "if you are the parent of a trans." But really, you could never trust them. It took a trans child for you to realize it.

Then there is how "the other half lives." Traditional, right wing communities. While a traditionalist would be appalled at a trans child, and openly pass judgement on the parents, he would not interfere in a parent-child relationship. In such communities, they can trust their friends and family.

The left has deconstructed the old social order and this is what they have built.

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“The most dangerous of all psychic epidemics is the ‘mass psychosis’: an epidemic of madness that occurs when a large portion of a society loses touch with reality and descends into delusions....Individuals who make up the infected society become morally and spiritually inferior…[and] sink unconsciously to an inferior intellectual level and become more unreasonable, irresponsible, emotional, erratic, and unreliable.” Carl Jung

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What a dumb C*NT she is!! HOLY SH!T! Someone needs to slap that woman so hard she cant taste anything for a year. I wish you the best with your son and me and you both know he WILL in fact grow past it like any ideology that indoctrinates. In your shoes I would just take my kid to another school, or even move far away and restart everything. I would immediately take the phone away or if I NEEDED my kid to have a phone for my own convenience, it would just be a flip phone, not a smart phone. The apps are the biggest source of this indoctrination, especially TikTok.

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I'll take Karpman Drama Triangle, for $400, Alex!

Your son is the Victim, oppressed and persecuted, you are the evil Villain and best of all, SHE gets to be the Savior! Perhaps she drove by your home and noticed the lack of a proper flag, or wondered why you had not been making SJW hay out of your trans kid on social media.

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I'm really sorry this happened. I don't know this what, but this sort of ideology is huge in certain women's programs that are lead by transgenders, ie men pretending to be women who brainwash women into acting like this idiot. https://open.substack.com/pub/justingaffneysamuels/p/womens-colleges-arts-programs-social?r=6512g&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

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This is so creepy! Going through your son's messages on his phone should be a no-go. You are being disrespectful to your son by disregarding his privacy.

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I'll be honest, this is awful. The other person (rightly or wrongly), believed something may be wrong, and so tried to get more information. Saying "trans has no boundaries" is ridiculous and completely missed the point. They believed there may have been emotional harm, and so were digging a bit to find the truth. Is their ideology wrong? Well that's up to you. But if it had been a whole heap of other social accepted things to dig for, this wouldn't have been an issue at all. You sound really closed minded and hot headed.

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This happened to me. One WAS a good friend, the other another Band mom. My son told both of them I'd kick him out of the house. I had no idea about any of the trans issue. The day after I found out, the one mom lectured me for an entire day, saying he'd be like her gay brother and commit suicide (found out years later her brother DID NOT commit suicide). When I ran into this woman a year go, I told her my son/daughter was almost raped on one occasion, attacked on another...

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You’re my hero. 💪🏻

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Wow. That is so creepy. You're right. Ppl lose all sense of boundaries around all of the lgbt stuff. If it isn't teachers teaching it to Kindergarteners, apparently it is family friends stalking your kid. What a creeper. Good for you for putting her in her place. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

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This just happened to me with my exSIL. I don’t know where she lived or I would have driven to her house to strangle her in person.

Still need to send her a message like this. I have been lucky that the bulk of adults in my circle all think this trans stuff is delusional and would never go behind my back.

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Thanks for sharing this story. I'm so glad you found your voice. I'm with you and I'd have done the same. What the hell is it going to take for people to really see whats happening???

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“I [You] found your voice...”

Exactly that. Good for you!! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼🫶🏼

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Good on you ❤❤❤

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Addendum: March 24, 2023.

The friend I mention below...just discovered she has supplied a breast binder to my daughter. Probably quite some time ago. Baggy clothing has covered it. I only looked for it because the EXfriend kept saying.. "So, I've noticed (name) seems so much happier these days." Wtf? And that she celebrated her niece's "coming out" with a cake. I was hoping she wouldn't meddle directly in my daughter's health but she did and this is war.

My smartest, most empathetic (EX) friend is caught up in ally-ship to the trans youth who are springing up like mushrooms in her circles.

I tried to talk to her a few years back and ran into the wall...she hadn't heard of lesbians being bullied to transition and had nothing to say about males transferring to female prisons.

I am waiting for the penny to drop with her. Quietly.

Of course her neice who "came out lesbian," (along with five outta six of her college roommates 2 years ago,) is now trans. That is the trajectory.

Of course she is proud to celebrate the "real" identity. She is called by her real empathy to do so.

She occasionally slips in the buzzwords in our heart to heart chats..."gender assigned at birth," "queer identity."

Turns out she received DEI training at her university. (Teaching in the masters program.)

It shocks me, this blind spot she has to the motives, the senselessness, the harms, the contagion.

It's my biggest nightmare that she will commiserate with my daughter, who is "queer" (as they all must be now) and who wears her hair short and has trans friends. My daughter is still "she."

The level of anger in the text above I can understand.

I would be as angry with my closest friend, my heart's champion, really, if she were to do that. The betrayal would kill me.

There would be no recourse, no turning back.

The useful idiots facilitating this body modification, mental-illness producing cult can be some of the best and kindest people.

They cannot see the porn, the profit, the grooming, the cognitive hijacking behind it.

If they did, their worldviews would change too much. They cannot bear that, so they are allies.

I've taken to prayer. And I'm an atheist. Creator help us all wake from gender mystification.

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