You will survive and you will be there for her. You are lucky that she still is not into the drugs or surgical transition, it is all in her mind, you are lucky. Maybe you can show her people who is detransitioning and speaking up about all the lies they were filled with when they had doubts, the most of them had confessed that they would never get the hard path if at least one person would told them to wait or that extremes actions would not stop the depression they had or their self-hated or their confusion. She wants to transition and have a beard but beards are a hard to maintained and men complained all the time, they usually shaved them. Explain to her that if biology doesn't defines gender why bother into get the other gender characteristics. Personally I think that boy to girl transitions are worst because there are a lot more to transform when you want to be a woman, we, women are more complex and became one is imposible. A woman who wants to be a man is a more common feeling that many can related to, men have it easier, don't they? But not, men are suffering deeper in this world too among all this confusion. We are all confused, evil is good and good is evil, and tolerance is good, but we tolerate when something is wrong or bad, that is the definition of tolerance, because we do not have to tolerate noble things, or beautiful things or good things, we don't need to. When there is love we do not tolerate, we tolerate because there is not love in our hearts but indifference or complacence or cowardly, not out of kindness. Love is truth. Parents used not to tolerate the use of drugs or alcohol or promiscuity because they were intrinsic bad for their children. They loved them and knew what a dangerous behavior meant and the consequences of it. Parents used to guide their children when they came with crazy ideas, to safe harbors. What did happen? We called it gender dysphoria and it was a mental affliction who needed treatment not affirmation. What did go wrong?
I'd be interested to know if there are any stories of parents of 'trans' kids who had to take them back for some reason and lay down boundaries in place. "You can dress and act however you want, your friends can call you whatever you want, but we will use your correct pronouns and birth name." Has this ever happened?
There are 5 foods eaten every day, gluten, milk, egg white, peanuts, shellfish which are known to be inflammatory to many people. They are difficult to digest proteins or have anti-nutrients, and create problems in people who have leaky gut, lack of digestive enzymes, gastric acid, or are predisposed to inflammation due to hormones, pollution.
Inflammation during pregnancy has beeb proven to cause LGBT behavior in offspring in experiments done by Cathrine Lenz. Chemicals, heavy metals also can be very inflammatory. Pesticide and mercury pollution are known to cause intersex conditions and homosexual behavior.
Praying with you ...... I've been praying for 2 years now, keeping to what I know to be true to me, alongside my daughter who would like me to think otherwise. I just can't and she knows this, and we're living ok like this, for now.
They may be buzzwords for you but they apply to my life. It's a personal story. This is how I choose to describe these experiences in my own life. This is a part of my story. Not his, not hers, not yours.
Being lax on the volume of Internet use with our youngest child was probably the biggest mistake of my life. The Internet won't destroy every kid, but it destroys many. I wish I had endured the heartburn then. And had keylogged everything the child typed. The best with your daughter.
My thoughts exactly; we did not monitor our child’s internet use and I believe social media indoctrinated her into this gender cult. That is my biggest regret today.
Cooke, you are completely right. When we give our children, and they are children, minors, a smart phone, it should be synchronized with our cells. The child is also told that we can see what they are looking at, and we should be blocking undesirable websites. God bless. Robert
What are her favorite foods? Foods that she adores and can't stay a day without eating? Seems strange to ask, but according to orthomolecular psychiatry, favorite foods eaten every day can cause psychiatric symptoms. The usual culprits are gluten, milk, egg white, peanuts, but one can know only by testing. Intolerant foods or chemicals can be risk factors for delusions, depression, hypersexuality etc.
orthomolecular psychiatry???!!!!........give me a break! This is just another snake oil salesman with a junk science ploy. Just stop! Yep!, some people do have allergies to certain foods.
A-diet-stress, I agree that a healthy diet is a key factor in helping combat depression and depression is often a comorbidity linked with gender confusion.
A good diet is one of many tools to help combat depression. However, I don't think this translates into foods eaten everyday, if foods eaten everyday are healthy. If said foods are full of processed ingredients and high in sugar, that is not conducive to good health. There is definitely a link between gut health and brain health, but I don't think the science has shown exactly what those links are. Just as there is a correlation between Vitamin D levels and other illnesses. PCOS, of course, is a very specific medical condition.
Let's face it, divorce is painful, life is hard, and raising kids is a challenge. No one is perfect, we have all made mistakes. We all have the "what ifs" and "should have" and "could have" woes. But this transgender cult is so evil and so ready to pounce on every innocent child, hoping to rip them out of loving Mother and Father's arms. This sick ideology wants to destroy our children's health, mind and body. No one saw this coming or thought it would blow-up worldwide. We had no way to prepare for this evil invasion any more than we did with Covid-19. That virus was lurking around every corner and was trying to get us and kill us. This evil cult has done the same thing except it was lurking in every computer, all over the internet, and just a click away.
Keep up the good work. I like the idea of bringing your daughter her favorite foods, and treats. Stay connected. It is the small things in life that matter most. I am glad she will see you - not a lot of kids will see their parents, so you have a huge advantage. Avoid the topic. Continue ride your bike while she skateboards, go for walks, or car rides out to the country or beach or mountains. Get ice cream. She has a dog so plan little dog outings.
You must not lose HOPE. Hope means "a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen". Prayer is important. Asking God for help is crucial, it will help you keep your hope alive. Best wishes to you and your daughter for healing and complete reconciliation.
Grandma Eileen, I appreciate your definition of hope. There are many days when hope lies dormant for me. But there are others where I feel a flicker and I allow myself to feel light in spite of the heaviness that lives within. Our family is dealing with multiple issues, gender woo-woo being just one of them. In my world, prayer is also top-of-the-list.
You are so right about families not seeing this coming. Just like Covid. Who could have predicted a world pandemic followed by a storm of young people wanting to opt out of their birth sex and/or identify as neither, take harmful hormones and/or cut off their body parts? It reads like a dystopian horror novel. I feel families will be reeling from this for years to come, even if our children desist.
BJECTIVES ● Students will learn about the Gender Snowperson to understand the differences between gender identity, sexual orientation and sex assigned at birth using ageappropriate language. ● Students will learn a basic tool to help them understand the concept of gender expression.
Well, let's try to make some lemonade here. The enemy is telling the parents EXACTLY what weapons they are planning to use to destroy the children. Excellent! Every parent with a young kid in these schools who cannot take the kid out (and maybe even those who do take them out): print out these lesson plans and go through them with your kid before it is taught at school, destroying it point by point. Talking to your kid in an age-appropriate way, teaching them critical thinking skills. Some lessons in history to be added about how in other countries kids were turned against parents and encouraged to rat the parents out - with devastating consequences.
And now Democrat Governor Newsom just signed a bill prohibiting any school official from telling a child's parents that their child has socially transitioned at school. That means the entire school will pretend that child has changed sexes, but use the kid's real name in parent teacher meetings and report cards. Vile grooming by adults now required by law in California. Parents need to sue, and start a hotline asking students to call if a classmate has transitioned at school. The time for unprecedented action is now. It's game over for kids if Dems win in November. They will kill the filibuster and make this federal law in all 50 states.
Team Reality, I am so sickened by how these "lessons" lie to children and teens. Why can't people see how this ideology is promoting harmful sex-role stereotypes? In one lesson you posted, that's exactly what they ask! "What are the stereotypical behaviours associated with girls and boys?" How on earth does that translate into, "if you don't exhibit these behaviours, you might not be a boy or girl or you might be neither?" What a way to destabilize a child or teen. This is abuse. Do you know if these are guidelines or are these exact lessons mandated in the state of California?
These all came from when i looked for CA sex education and Sunnyvale school district came up first and I just followed the links. The last one is from the "human rights campaign" which advocates for sterilizing mentality ill children.
You will survive and you will be there for her. You are lucky that she still is not into the drugs or surgical transition, it is all in her mind, you are lucky. Maybe you can show her people who is detransitioning and speaking up about all the lies they were filled with when they had doubts, the most of them had confessed that they would never get the hard path if at least one person would told them to wait or that extremes actions would not stop the depression they had or their self-hated or their confusion. She wants to transition and have a beard but beards are a hard to maintained and men complained all the time, they usually shaved them. Explain to her that if biology doesn't defines gender why bother into get the other gender characteristics. Personally I think that boy to girl transitions are worst because there are a lot more to transform when you want to be a woman, we, women are more complex and became one is imposible. A woman who wants to be a man is a more common feeling that many can related to, men have it easier, don't they? But not, men are suffering deeper in this world too among all this confusion. We are all confused, evil is good and good is evil, and tolerance is good, but we tolerate when something is wrong or bad, that is the definition of tolerance, because we do not have to tolerate noble things, or beautiful things or good things, we don't need to. When there is love we do not tolerate, we tolerate because there is not love in our hearts but indifference or complacence or cowardly, not out of kindness. Love is truth. Parents used not to tolerate the use of drugs or alcohol or promiscuity because they were intrinsic bad for their children. They loved them and knew what a dangerous behavior meant and the consequences of it. Parents used to guide their children when they came with crazy ideas, to safe harbors. What did happen? We called it gender dysphoria and it was a mental affliction who needed treatment not affirmation. What did go wrong?
Keep up the faith and keep praying. I will be praying for you and your daughter too. I agree about the stupid, f*ing internet.
"The barrier is still thick with insanity" just about sums up our times. Thanks for writing this piece, and all the best to you and your family.
Had we only imagined the malevolence inside that little box! Your story is mine. Keep the faith - she IS in there.
Praying right now for you and your sweet daughter! God is great and he cares for both of you more than you can imagine!
I'd be interested to know if there are any stories of parents of 'trans' kids who had to take them back for some reason and lay down boundaries in place. "You can dress and act however you want, your friends can call you whatever you want, but we will use your correct pronouns and birth name." Has this ever happened?
There are 5 foods eaten every day, gluten, milk, egg white, peanuts, shellfish which are known to be inflammatory to many people. They are difficult to digest proteins or have anti-nutrients, and create problems in people who have leaky gut, lack of digestive enzymes, gastric acid, or are predisposed to inflammation due to hormones, pollution.
Inflammation during pregnancy has beeb proven to cause LGBT behavior in offspring in experiments done by Cathrine Lenz. Chemicals, heavy metals also can be very inflammatory. Pesticide and mercury pollution are known to cause intersex conditions and homosexual behavior.
Prayers for you and your daughter!!!!
Praying with you ...... I've been praying for 2 years now, keeping to what I know to be true to me, alongside my daughter who would like me to think otherwise. I just can't and she knows this, and we're living ok like this, for now.
“The barrier is still thick with insanity”
That’s a great way of putting it. I am 3 years in, able to step back at last & see it like it is, exactly like it is.
Your daughter is so very lucky you are there for her. 🙏 Divorce or no divorce
They may be buzzwords for you but they apply to my life. It's a personal story. This is how I choose to describe these experiences in my own life. This is a part of my story. Not his, not hers, not yours.
Being lax on the volume of Internet use with our youngest child was probably the biggest mistake of my life. The Internet won't destroy every kid, but it destroys many. I wish I had endured the heartburn then. And had keylogged everything the child typed. The best with your daughter.
My thoughts exactly; we did not monitor our child’s internet use and I believe social media indoctrinated her into this gender cult. That is my biggest regret today.
Cooke, you are completely right. When we give our children, and they are children, minors, a smart phone, it should be synchronized with our cells. The child is also told that we can see what they are looking at, and we should be blocking undesirable websites. God bless. Robert
What are her favorite foods? Foods that she adores and can't stay a day without eating? Seems strange to ask, but according to orthomolecular psychiatry, favorite foods eaten every day can cause psychiatric symptoms. The usual culprits are gluten, milk, egg white, peanuts, but one can know only by testing. Intolerant foods or chemicals can be risk factors for delusions, depression, hypersexuality etc.
orthomolecular psychiatry???!!!!........give me a break! This is just another snake oil salesman with a junk science ploy. Just stop! Yep!, some people do have allergies to certain foods.
A-diet-stress, I agree that a healthy diet is a key factor in helping combat depression and depression is often a comorbidity linked with gender confusion.
A good diet is one of many tools to help combat depression. However, I don't think this translates into foods eaten everyday, if foods eaten everyday are healthy. If said foods are full of processed ingredients and high in sugar, that is not conducive to good health. There is definitely a link between gut health and brain health, but I don't think the science has shown exactly what those links are. Just as there is a correlation between Vitamin D levels and other illnesses. PCOS, of course, is a very specific medical condition.
Let's face it, divorce is painful, life is hard, and raising kids is a challenge. No one is perfect, we have all made mistakes. We all have the "what ifs" and "should have" and "could have" woes. But this transgender cult is so evil and so ready to pounce on every innocent child, hoping to rip them out of loving Mother and Father's arms. This sick ideology wants to destroy our children's health, mind and body. No one saw this coming or thought it would blow-up worldwide. We had no way to prepare for this evil invasion any more than we did with Covid-19. That virus was lurking around every corner and was trying to get us and kill us. This evil cult has done the same thing except it was lurking in every computer, all over the internet, and just a click away.
Keep up the good work. I like the idea of bringing your daughter her favorite foods, and treats. Stay connected. It is the small things in life that matter most. I am glad she will see you - not a lot of kids will see their parents, so you have a huge advantage. Avoid the topic. Continue ride your bike while she skateboards, go for walks, or car rides out to the country or beach or mountains. Get ice cream. She has a dog so plan little dog outings.
You must not lose HOPE. Hope means "a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen". Prayer is important. Asking God for help is crucial, it will help you keep your hope alive. Best wishes to you and your daughter for healing and complete reconciliation.
Grandma Eileen, I appreciate your definition of hope. There are many days when hope lies dormant for me. But there are others where I feel a flicker and I allow myself to feel light in spite of the heaviness that lives within. Our family is dealing with multiple issues, gender woo-woo being just one of them. In my world, prayer is also top-of-the-list.
You are so right about families not seeing this coming. Just like Covid. Who could have predicted a world pandemic followed by a storm of young people wanting to opt out of their birth sex and/or identify as neither, take harmful hormones and/or cut off their body parts? It reads like a dystopian horror novel. I feel families will be reeling from this for years to come, even if our children desist.
It is because both things were brought to you by the same people, the globalist/Marxist elites. These are the weapons of war in the 21st century.
🙏&♥️ to you! Right there with you.
Check out California's state ordered sex ed curriculum. Made as law in 2019. See any correlation with the hockey stick trans I'd graph?
https://docs.google.com/document/u/0/d/1TvKthcgIa2nnsBqJY5oD3E8VtcXSibA544Wl1ZzWDzg/mobilebasic?pli=1
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1U3HImrTWxdjX_4UGtAZJOscVyt6ysKM7/view?pli=1
Give middle school kids the "gender snow person " hand out. https://acrobat.adobe.com/id/urn:aaid:sc:US:c5792e1b-3445-4872-93ab-f38900089daa
BJECTIVES ● Students will learn about the Gender Snowperson to understand the differences between gender identity, sexual orientation and sex assigned at birth using ageappropriate language. ● Students will learn a basic tool to help them understand the concept of gender expression.
Well, let's try to make some lemonade here. The enemy is telling the parents EXACTLY what weapons they are planning to use to destroy the children. Excellent! Every parent with a young kid in these schools who cannot take the kid out (and maybe even those who do take them out): print out these lesson plans and go through them with your kid before it is taught at school, destroying it point by point. Talking to your kid in an age-appropriate way, teaching them critical thinking skills. Some lessons in history to be added about how in other countries kids were turned against parents and encouraged to rat the parents out - with devastating consequences.
Wonderful suggestions MoominMamma.
And now Democrat Governor Newsom just signed a bill prohibiting any school official from telling a child's parents that their child has socially transitioned at school. That means the entire school will pretend that child has changed sexes, but use the kid's real name in parent teacher meetings and report cards. Vile grooming by adults now required by law in California. Parents need to sue, and start a hotline asking students to call if a classmate has transitioned at school. The time for unprecedented action is now. It's game over for kids if Dems win in November. They will kill the filibuster and make this federal law in all 50 states.
Team Reality, I am so sickened by how these "lessons" lie to children and teens. Why can't people see how this ideology is promoting harmful sex-role stereotypes? In one lesson you posted, that's exactly what they ask! "What are the stereotypical behaviours associated with girls and boys?" How on earth does that translate into, "if you don't exhibit these behaviours, you might not be a boy or girl or you might be neither?" What a way to destabilize a child or teen. This is abuse. Do you know if these are guidelines or are these exact lessons mandated in the state of California?
These all came from when i looked for CA sex education and Sunnyvale school district came up first and I just followed the links. The last one is from the "human rights campaign" which advocates for sterilizing mentality ill children.
Wow, so sad and crazy. What gives them the right to do this?! Feels like they're playing God.
This is crazy. And so very sad.
It's intended to be targeted as young as 3rd grade
😢 just awful. I’m a primary teacher. I cant imagine
Ann, do you mind saying what state or province you teach in? Do you have to teach lessons like these?