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I was trying to express how I perceive what non-believers think about the religious. I used to be in that camp but have increasingly come to admire faith or belief in God as a traditional bulwark against the madness of the modern world. I just don't think I can do it myself. I've been to church, maybe I will turn to the Good book and try again. I'm sorry if I didn't communicate that well... I genuinely thought it might be helpful to hear that from someone without faith. Despite what you think, I have huge sympathy for parents going through any type of loss caused by this dreadful movement.

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I so appreciate your post, your story is similar to ours, only our son decided to become a female at age 40. Three children and then a divorce, and comes to me and tells me this. At 40. I have maintained a relationship until recently, asked him to come to Christmas, and instead he fought with me about not accepting him as our daughter and cut off all communication. You all know how devastating it as a parent. And no, God does not make mistakes, which they refuse to acknowledge.

We are living in dark times, and I appreciate this community to share and realize we are not alone and hopefully one day, we will have our children back. All we can do is pray. And continue to fight against this hideous future "they" want. Prayers for all of you.

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So incredibly sorry for the loss of your husband and now your son. Please know that you are not alone in this horrendous fight - we are here for you and God is by your side. Cling to hope and do not stop praying. I have seen many miracles in my 66 years on this earth and I know firsthand that God answers prayers - especially in ways that I did not expect. My nephew returned home before Christmas and desisted. My sister was very sad and heartbroken for several years but now she is reunited with her son and her happiness is beginning to return. There are stories on this sub stack that give us hope and encouragement and being reunited with our lost loved one is what we all want in the long run. I pray for you and your son. Hold fast to your faith and never stop asking for a miracle. God hears our prayers.

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Thank you for your article and your link. My heart, my prayers, are with you. As the grandmother of three confused young adults living as the opposite sex, and the grandmother of a young woman living with a man dressing as a woman, your words and Laura's words have eased some of my pain. We, who love, but who live in reality, also live with many questions. "If, if only, if only I." Your story helps us to remember to go to the Source of all peace, the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. The glorious thing about Christianity, is that we can face the truth about ourselves, and come to the understanding that through Him, though we are flawed, as all human beings are, we are loved and forgiven. We are made in His image, no other of His creatures are. He has plans for us. No matter how transhumanism (and all its aspects) is pushed and pounded into our society, tormenting us and our loved ones who succumb to it, His truth will prevail. In the meantime, we are to fight the good fight. Thank you for fighting. Love, Indio

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Your comments and quotes about faith are reminding me of a realisation I believe I have raised before about how many parents are religious on this site. I'm an atheist, one that loves Christian culture and morals (mostly) but can't believe but would have loved to. I can't even support a football team, let alone believe in God. Your quote about you having your faith I have mine so demonstrates the weakness of faith in the modern, increasingly secular world. Let me tell you you are seen by most non-believers as rather stupid for believing what you believe. It makes no sense at all to non-believers. If you imagine how secular society amplifies such sentiments it's easy to see how your authority is grossly and wrongly undermined, especially in relation to your children. I don't mean this as a criticism from me, just an observation about something that seems important in a lot of families, especially in the US. I don't know how this helps you, it just seems real to me. It reinforces the sense that authoritative parenting might be a really important aspect of the whole trans debacle. My sister in law is a Catholic but holds her children very close to her, home schooling her huge brood. I can't imagine them being infected by trans... we shall see... perhaps this is (not overtly) authoritarian parenting that amounts to something authoritative. I wish you the very best.

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I’m sorry for your loss in so many ways. My husband and I feel like we aren’t going to make it half the time. Our daughter threw this in our faces during 2020. I lost my mind almost and tried to divorce him. I felt so much guilt and still do for every little thing I did from the moment she was born. I have realized that she is not going to come around anytime soon. If doctors and therapists as well as schools and peer groups and the damn government sellouts didn’t affirm this, we’d have a better chance. She keeps insisting I call her my son and calls us horrible names if we don’t do what she wants. I’m so tired of it. We gave and kept hiving her everything. My heart is shattered. I pray from guidance but nothing works. So I pray for you. For all parents who are being tortured by these monsters manipulating our children’s minds and bodies.

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Please accept my heart felt love and condolences for your devastating loss. I am not surprised that your son’s news would cause your husband to die of a broken heart. I pray for you to have strength to continue to fight for truth. Thank you for sharing your words.

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The problem with religious argument.

>> He said something like, "You have your faith and I have mine." <<

On that premise he has a valid point. If the discussion becomes about deep feelings and sincere belief, then his position is as philosophically credible as yours.

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As I have delved into the reasons and causes for the transgender phenomenon it appears to me more and more that it is part of the larger postmodernist and transhumanist agenda. This is why I warn against trying to turn this controversy into yet another partisan issue. Republican vs. Democrat; liberal vs. conservative; Christian vs. unbelievers; etc.; is not going to turn the tide. Indeed, in my estimation, it plays right into the hands of the extremists on both sides.

Many transhumanists are techno-libertarians eg. billionaires Peter Theil and (the flakey brain chip proponent) Elon Musk, also Ray Kurzweil, et al. I recommend this article on Quillette that explains the reach of transhumanism and its convergence with transgenderism. Here is an alarming excerpt:

>> Liberating the body from reproduction liberates humanity from our own physical continuation. At first glance, reproductive advocates may tout this as progress, but removing reproduction from our bodily purview does not only liberate us from the body, it also subjects us to the tyranny of the mind. Removing the body from reproduction is primarily the elimination of women from the process of creating human beings. Liberation from reproduction is liberation from sex, both in act and biology. At which point, gender truly becomes fashion with no remaining foundations in the story of human origins. <<

https://quillette.com/2018/07/11/the-transhumanism-revolution-oppression-disguised-as-liberation/

At the heart of this is the spread of postmodernism thought among both political persuasions in the U.S. On the right it manifests itself as reactionary postmodernism, ie., Trumpism, QAnon, anti-vaxx, climate denial, etc. On the left (and more pertinent to this forum) is revolutionary postmodernism.

Postmodernism generally involves the notion that there is no such thing as objective truth; that all revolves around relative cultural experiences and that consequently there is no such thing as objective morality; the assertion that science is not objectively true and just one “narrative” among many “narratives”; and the view that no words/language can have a fixed meaning intended by its author.

Almost everything you read or hear from transgender activists and ideologues stems from political postmodernists and particularly from the proponents of ‘queer theory’. These are the people who have indeed become so nihilistic and harebrained that they maintain even human biological sex is a “social construct”.

We’ve got to now the battleground in order to prevail … transgender ideology is a product of postmodern political philosophy and that is where we have to fight.

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Thanks for posting. Ms. Aboli mentions "Singularity" as it applies to transhumanism, but the roots of it are found millennium ago with the lie of "oneness," the unity of all phenomena which is essential to mystic traditions in both East and West especially Hinduism, Buddhism, and Wicca with everything becoming one with everything and everyone else materially and spiritually, with every individual distinction absorbed into the One. There can be no division, no binary. Androgyny is part of godhood. It is all a lie straight from the pit of hell. Camille Paglia (atheist, feminist, social critic, art professor) famously observed years ago that in her exploration of androgyny throughout art history, it wasn't the individual expression but the acceptance of it by a society that signaled its soon destruction. God explains it clearly in Romans 1:18-32. Trans is androgyny on steroids - literally.

We can see the growing spread of Oneness in the bigger picture of convergence with movement towards a one-world government, earth worship through radical climate change, a universal religion through the interfaith movement.

My heart always goes out to those who post to this site, because so many are walking in the dark. We do not live in a spiritual vacuum. Please, please ask the Lord to show you the truth. Choose this day whom you will follow. I am praying for you all.

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Start this video at 30 minute mark for those with time constraints….exposes the upside down , lies, and who is behind the trans movement and why…… https://rumble.com/v41hh1h-uncensored-breaking-us-moves-to-exit-the-who-and-the-un-ft.-dr.-rima-laibow.html

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Very profound analysis and great plug for this U.K. speech. Excited to listen. Thanks.

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How sad to see one faith based belief replaced by another. For a simple atheist like me faith is not necessary to dismantle the trans delusion. A trans woman is not a woman, this can easily be established by scientific means.

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During most of my adult life, I saw this coming. A serious bible and prophecy student, I would often ask myself "How?", "why?" when reading changes in global action that defied what I knew to be true at the time. One by one, mechanisms, organizations and ethos became evident that moved in the direction I saw unfolding in scripture. Now that the hidden global forces moving toward global thought, global economy, global control, global religion etc., have emerged with their agenda on full display, the only thing that I can do is become filled armed with spiritual equipment to fight this deeply spiritual battle. Primarily, praying like my life depends on it. It does as it is for all those I love. If you mocked a friend or loved one who talked about such things, rethink, revisit. Get armed!

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Happy that more folks are learning just how insidious this movement is.

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I'm not falling for this "transhumanism" conspiracy theory. Let's stay focused on gender ideology, please.

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I am sorry for the loss of your husband. I too cannot lie to my daughter who fell into the trans rabbit hole. She did eventually reconnect. I do not think it was because of anything her family said or did but perhaps because that little bit of family love that was hidden inside her for years began to reemerge among the lies and deceit. Our love never left us and she knew we would not abandon her. This is the message I made clear to her in the estranged years. She could cut us off again, as truth and love are my only offerings. May your son one day wake up. Our gender mistakes, aka our children, are merely fodder for the principalities and powers that want children and young adults for their agendas. Exposing them is key.

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