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Amy Sellers's avatar

My sympathies dad.

I would point out that, if Sawyer wanted to change to opposite gender clothing at school, the schools would provide a place to change, and all the clothing. They would also keep it a secret from his mother. And, if he wanted to transition, they would provide transportation and support to do that without her permission or knowledge. They should be equally willing to help him live a normal life against her will, and counseling to help him learn to deal with her mental health issues, since they are all about affirming the child.

Seems like you could teach him to ask for that support. And you could legally request that his wishes be honored.

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Hazel-rah's avatar

Good luck! I am right there with you, going through something similar with my nine-year-old in a very blue state.

Unfortunately in blue states family courts we have to pretend that trans is real and valid, but that our child happens to not be. I hope you have found a psychologist who is on your side, you’ll need it.

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