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As the holidays have finally passed and with them, perhaps, an easing the pain of loss and disconnection I came back to your words Redford. How do we go forward in pursuit? Learning, somehow, to go forward with the hole in my heart? Trying not to own the blaming arrows that have been thrown at me. It is excruciating for me to be cast in this oppressor role, but I try daily to remind myself that just because he says it doesn’t make it true. Our goal in this new year is to begin pursuit in whatever form that takes. New territory for parents who imagined a live interconnected to their adult children.

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