Thanks for responding. I do feel God did make a very small step towards me in my prayers for my son and me to reconnect atleast by text. I’m not going to force myself on my son. I will stay quiet and keep my distance as I feel the quiet can speak volumes. I miss him so much. We use to be so close that her sense of humor is really what I …
Thanks for responding. I do feel God did make a very small step towards me in my prayers for my son and me to reconnect atleast by text. I’m not going to force myself on my son. I will stay quiet and keep my distance as I feel the quiet can speak volumes. I miss him so much. We use to be so close that her sense of humor is really what I miss but I tell myself I have to trust the Dear Lord knows what he’s doing. I’d love for you to share the prayer. I do pray for you to keep helping us parents when we are so confused from this trans life. I hope you are living your happiest life and that I really admire your courage to help us all. God bless you.
"Dear Lord, I pray this day that you would pour out your Spirit upon (name), and anoint him (her) for all you have called him (her) to be and do. I pray for your deliverance from the destructive path he (she) has been enticed to follow, trying to be someone he (she) was not created to be.
Deliver him (her) from any evil plan of the devil to destroy the person you created him (her) to be and to rob him (her) of his ( her) uniqueness, giftedness, his ( her) future, joy and life.
Open his (her) eyes to the truth of his (her) real identity and your perfect plan for his (her) life.
Help him (her) see that attempting to "transition " to the opposite sex will never bring him (her) the lasting happiness and peace he ( she) is longing for. Let his ( her) personality not be scarred nor his ( her) emotions damaged by the fragmentation of the soul that happens as a result of falling for the lies of gender identity confusion.
I pray for your cleansing power in my child's heart and mind of all the lies he ( she) has believed and that are ravaging his ( her) life. Help him ( her) clearly see that when the laws associated with your perfect creation of male and female are disregarded, life simply doesn't work. I pray for protection for my child against mutilation and permanent damage of his (her) body. I pray for deliverance, healing and wholeness for my child.
And when he ( she) is free from the slavery of his ( her) confusion, help my child lay down healthy boundaries, develop beneficial friendships, get a clear vision for his ( her) life and resist anything that is not your best for him ( her). I trust in your word that says " He sent His Word and healed them and delivered them from their destruction " and I believe in the labor of freedom you will, in your grace, accomplish in the life of my child. Amen.
Helena one more question that makes me wake up at night.
When the parents give our children the silent treatment because we refuse to “buy in” to the trans cult with the pronouns, new name etc. What in their mind do they think? Do they think oh good they have gotten the hint and stay away? Or do they think oh no I pushed my agenda too far?
Sometimes I feel the trans agenda is a game to them, and by not playing anymore they might not get the “rush” of it. Just curious what they are thinking?
I’m sorry to keep asking my questions and making you go back in time but I really value your opinion and TG for you on helping us parents. I would love to meet you sometime as u truly value you more than you know. I thank God you even acknowledge me and let me ask you questions. It really helps me as I try to understand the trans world. Ty
This is a great question. My son’s texts were so ‘not him’ before we became estranged. Nothing I said seemed to reach him anyway. He was so adamant it was affirmination or nothing. I think from all my knowledge & my powerlessness I fairly quickly decided I was not going to fuel his reasons for cutting me off. It was a game I didn’t want to play. My silence became my response. It feels like forced resignation. I think about him every single day & how shockingly cruel it is for all of us. There is so much rejected love out there from good people.
When you are swept, hook, line and sinker, into the trans ideology, you're oblivious to the sinister agenda(s) behind it. You don't realize you're "pushing an agenda" on your folks. So you never think you "pushed " too far. Though one may appreciate the distancing or
"silence" of parents because it means a cease fire in constant daily hostility, ultimately when the house crashes and the transition fails to provide the happiness one was shooting for and your glitter family turns on you as your disillusionment becomes a threat to their existence, the parents are usually the ones one turns to.
So make sure that your silent treatment, as you name it, is a loving one, where your kid knows that the door of your heart and your house are open. By not agreeing to the fake name and wrong pronouns, besides showing self respect by standing your ground, you're also protecting your sanity and you're placing yourself as the last safeguard of biological truth , an anchor to reality, available when your kid wakes up from his delusion.
Thanks for responding. I do feel God did make a very small step towards me in my prayers for my son and me to reconnect atleast by text. I’m not going to force myself on my son. I will stay quiet and keep my distance as I feel the quiet can speak volumes. I miss him so much. We use to be so close that her sense of humor is really what I miss but I tell myself I have to trust the Dear Lord knows what he’s doing. I’d love for you to share the prayer. I do pray for you to keep helping us parents when we are so confused from this trans life. I hope you are living your happiest life and that I really admire your courage to help us all. God bless you.
I forgot to mention that this prayer is a free adaptation of prayers in " The power of a praying parent " by Stormie Omartian
So here is the prayer I talked about
"Dear Lord, I pray this day that you would pour out your Spirit upon (name), and anoint him (her) for all you have called him (her) to be and do. I pray for your deliverance from the destructive path he (she) has been enticed to follow, trying to be someone he (she) was not created to be.
Deliver him (her) from any evil plan of the devil to destroy the person you created him (her) to be and to rob him (her) of his ( her) uniqueness, giftedness, his ( her) future, joy and life.
Open his (her) eyes to the truth of his (her) real identity and your perfect plan for his (her) life.
Help him (her) see that attempting to "transition " to the opposite sex will never bring him (her) the lasting happiness and peace he ( she) is longing for. Let his ( her) personality not be scarred nor his ( her) emotions damaged by the fragmentation of the soul that happens as a result of falling for the lies of gender identity confusion.
I pray for your cleansing power in my child's heart and mind of all the lies he ( she) has believed and that are ravaging his ( her) life. Help him ( her) clearly see that when the laws associated with your perfect creation of male and female are disregarded, life simply doesn't work. I pray for protection for my child against mutilation and permanent damage of his (her) body. I pray for deliverance, healing and wholeness for my child.
And when he ( she) is free from the slavery of his ( her) confusion, help my child lay down healthy boundaries, develop beneficial friendships, get a clear vision for his ( her) life and resist anything that is not your best for him ( her). I trust in your word that says " He sent His Word and healed them and delivered them from their destruction " and I believe in the labor of freedom you will, in your grace, accomplish in the life of my child. Amen.
Thanks
I'll do some scavenger hunt and once I find it,
I'll send it to you
Helena one more question that makes me wake up at night.
When the parents give our children the silent treatment because we refuse to “buy in” to the trans cult with the pronouns, new name etc. What in their mind do they think? Do they think oh good they have gotten the hint and stay away? Or do they think oh no I pushed my agenda too far?
Sometimes I feel the trans agenda is a game to them, and by not playing anymore they might not get the “rush” of it. Just curious what they are thinking?
I’m sorry to keep asking my questions and making you go back in time but I really value your opinion and TG for you on helping us parents. I would love to meet you sometime as u truly value you more than you know. I thank God you even acknowledge me and let me ask you questions. It really helps me as I try to understand the trans world. Ty
This is a great question. My son’s texts were so ‘not him’ before we became estranged. Nothing I said seemed to reach him anyway. He was so adamant it was affirmination or nothing. I think from all my knowledge & my powerlessness I fairly quickly decided I was not going to fuel his reasons for cutting me off. It was a game I didn’t want to play. My silence became my response. It feels like forced resignation. I think about him every single day & how shockingly cruel it is for all of us. There is so much rejected love out there from good people.
When you are swept, hook, line and sinker, into the trans ideology, you're oblivious to the sinister agenda(s) behind it. You don't realize you're "pushing an agenda" on your folks. So you never think you "pushed " too far. Though one may appreciate the distancing or
"silence" of parents because it means a cease fire in constant daily hostility, ultimately when the house crashes and the transition fails to provide the happiness one was shooting for and your glitter family turns on you as your disillusionment becomes a threat to their existence, the parents are usually the ones one turns to.
So make sure that your silent treatment, as you name it, is a loving one, where your kid knows that the door of your heart and your house are open. By not agreeing to the fake name and wrong pronouns, besides showing self respect by standing your ground, you're also protecting your sanity and you're placing yourself as the last safeguard of biological truth , an anchor to reality, available when your kid wakes up from his delusion.
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