Estrangement, noun the state of being alienated or separated in feeling or affection, a state of hostility or unfriendliness. the state of being separated or removed. Estrangement/estransgement: it is indeed both of these meanings. Being estranged from one’s child is something no mother ever imagines—at least it wasn’t in my realm of possibilities. I cannot recall knowing of any parent-child estrangements when I was younger. Even now, the only parent-child estrangements that I am personally acquainted with are trans estrangements. Sadly, there are many of us in this club of impossibilities. Estrangement with a child is life in the twilight zone. With a trans estrangement, the twilight turns to dusk, life gets stranger.
Turing was forced to take hormone suppression because of laws that basically criminalized homosexuality. This was not his choice. It was either that, or prison.
I'm writing this as someone who is gay that grew up in a very religious household, and went to an incredibly strict private Christian school. In the complete absence of "acceptance", or "tolerance" I still knew I was gay. My story is not uncommon. No one brainwashed me. In fact, it was the opposite since I was exclusively only taught that it would send me to hell. What I wish happened was just once someone would've said "hey, it's ok there's nothing wrong with you". That's it. That's all we're asking for.
Hi, I'm back as promised to tell you the interview went well with FOX, I was able to say alot in 2 hours but they'll use maybe 6 minutes if I'm lucky. I described the indoctrination of kids to reject their loving and devoted parents. Expressed my horror at the harm done to kids and families, and my anger at fellow health professionals. I tried my best, the rest is out of my hamds.
I too, lost my adult daughter. She told me she was going on vacation, to spend time with her best friend for his birthday. She cut off all contact. Changed her name. Hasn't even responded to messages sent through her best friend.
Horrifying. Speechless. Despair. Rage. I feel you. This is the path no parent should ever need to walk. We are with you and you are not alone. Wishing you peace.
Strange too that it is possible to live again with an estranged daughter. She has a deep voice, facial hair, no breasts so passes as a man. When I look only at her face I can still see some of the beautiful feminine girl that she was. I miss the sweet voice. My daughter is a drug addict. Testosterone is to blame
I am being interviewed this week for a FOX documentary about indoctrination in the K-12 system. I will reread this piece beforehand to get me "in the mood". The challenge is to stay cool and calm when I want to scream. I must present the facts in a professional manner without loosing my mind from rage.
To the author: I will have your nightmare in mind and will describe it if possible. I am fighting for you and all parents with all I've got.
Miriam Grossman MD (Child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist and author)
I am so sorry to hear your heartbreaking story. This should never happen yet it is not uncommon. There's been broad Kindergarten - University institutional capture. And, it's spreading. More vulnerable young people and their families will suffer. Until your child is captured by a cult you might never imagine that your close bond could be damaged like this. Your daughter will feel your love and come back someday. But, she should never have been medically damaged. College is not a "safe space". I am not a lawyer but this needs to get expensive for the bad medical people and schools. I think indoctrination starts with "Using Pronouns". Perhaps all who are not in a delicate situation with their own child might sign off "Beep/Bop/Boop" in an "I am Spartacus" vein. Where are the rational, moral lawmakers?
This is so heartbreaking. It will be cold comfort to this mom, but there must be no leniency shown to institutions that have behaved in this way. When the truth comes out, they must be held to account, including bankrupting and shutting down institutions and individuals. Burn it all down.
There's at least one lawyer who reads these comments. So, here's a lawyer question:
Let's say PITT decided to make a list of colleges/universities which supported the mutilation and destruction of children via hormones and surgery. And let's say that this list was publicly available for parents to look at. Parents spend 18 years raising their kid, supporting them, feeding them. They do not want to kid to go to college and be helped in taking hormones that destroy their fertility and surgeries that cut off their boobs/dicks.
So, could this list and the authors of the list be sued? Is there a legal risk in setting up such a list and making it public?
90% of those who join groups, leave them. Lisa Marchiano did a really helpful interview with Pat Ryan, a group/cult expert. https://www.intervention101.com/ I wonder if there's his org can do in situations like this where there's been a do not contact order? Thank you for sharing your story; the capture of campuses is astonishing and these clinics need to be held accountable. I have tried to imagine the nightmare of estrangement and it fills me with terror. Based on her avoidance of you, I would guess she knows you love her desperately and would have discouraged this system-inflicted-harm; deep down I'd bet she also knows you love her unconditionally, and she can come home when she's ready to heal.
What is the university? It's time to up the approach.
Universities rely on new students every year. What is needed is a full information approach so that other parents know that their children will be mutilated and perverted.
It's also time to stop saying "it's a lifestyle". Trans is a perversion and a mutilation.
What should the mother do? Cut the kid off completely. No money. No support. No family. The kid is lost. Cut the kid off. Tell grandma and grandpa to cut the kid off. No support.
Turing was forced to take hormone suppression because of laws that basically criminalized homosexuality. This was not his choice. It was either that, or prison.
I'm writing this as someone who is gay that grew up in a very religious household, and went to an incredibly strict private Christian school. In the complete absence of "acceptance", or "tolerance" I still knew I was gay. My story is not uncommon. No one brainwashed me. In fact, it was the opposite since I was exclusively only taught that it would send me to hell. What I wish happened was just once someone would've said "hey, it's ok there's nothing wrong with you". That's it. That's all we're asking for.
Hi, I'm back as promised to tell you the interview went well with FOX, I was able to say alot in 2 hours but they'll use maybe 6 minutes if I'm lucky. I described the indoctrination of kids to reject their loving and devoted parents. Expressed my horror at the harm done to kids and families, and my anger at fellow health professionals. I tried my best, the rest is out of my hamds.
I too, lost my adult daughter. She told me she was going on vacation, to spend time with her best friend for his birthday. She cut off all contact. Changed her name. Hasn't even responded to messages sent through her best friend.
Horrifying. Speechless. Despair. Rage. I feel you. This is the path no parent should ever need to walk. We are with you and you are not alone. Wishing you peace.
Strange too that it is possible to live again with an estranged daughter. She has a deep voice, facial hair, no breasts so passes as a man. When I look only at her face I can still see some of the beautiful feminine girl that she was. I miss the sweet voice. My daughter is a drug addict. Testosterone is to blame
I am being interviewed this week for a FOX documentary about indoctrination in the K-12 system. I will reread this piece beforehand to get me "in the mood". The challenge is to stay cool and calm when I want to scream. I must present the facts in a professional manner without loosing my mind from rage.
To the author: I will have your nightmare in mind and will describe it if possible. I am fighting for you and all parents with all I've got.
Miriam Grossman MD (Child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist and author)
Totally and utterly heartbreakin. 💔
I am so sorry to hear your heartbreaking story. This should never happen yet it is not uncommon. There's been broad Kindergarten - University institutional capture. And, it's spreading. More vulnerable young people and their families will suffer. Until your child is captured by a cult you might never imagine that your close bond could be damaged like this. Your daughter will feel your love and come back someday. But, she should never have been medically damaged. College is not a "safe space". I am not a lawyer but this needs to get expensive for the bad medical people and schools. I think indoctrination starts with "Using Pronouns". Perhaps all who are not in a delicate situation with their own child might sign off "Beep/Bop/Boop" in an "I am Spartacus" vein. Where are the rational, moral lawmakers?
This is so heartbreaking. It will be cold comfort to this mom, but there must be no leniency shown to institutions that have behaved in this way. When the truth comes out, they must be held to account, including bankrupting and shutting down institutions and individuals. Burn it all down.
There's at least one lawyer who reads these comments. So, here's a lawyer question:
Let's say PITT decided to make a list of colleges/universities which supported the mutilation and destruction of children via hormones and surgery. And let's say that this list was publicly available for parents to look at. Parents spend 18 years raising their kid, supporting them, feeding them. They do not want to kid to go to college and be helped in taking hormones that destroy their fertility and surgeries that cut off their boobs/dicks.
So, could this list and the authors of the list be sued? Is there a legal risk in setting up such a list and making it public?
90% of those who join groups, leave them. Lisa Marchiano did a really helpful interview with Pat Ryan, a group/cult expert. https://www.intervention101.com/ I wonder if there's his org can do in situations like this where there's been a do not contact order? Thank you for sharing your story; the capture of campuses is astonishing and these clinics need to be held accountable. I have tried to imagine the nightmare of estrangement and it fills me with terror. Based on her avoidance of you, I would guess she knows you love her desperately and would have discouraged this system-inflicted-harm; deep down I'd bet she also knows you love her unconditionally, and she can come home when she's ready to heal.
My heart breaks for you. I absolutely agree with George....time to "out" the schools that encourage children to accept this mutilation.
What is the university? It's time to up the approach.
Universities rely on new students every year. What is needed is a full information approach so that other parents know that their children will be mutilated and perverted.
It's also time to stop saying "it's a lifestyle". Trans is a perversion and a mutilation.
What should the mother do? Cut the kid off completely. No money. No support. No family. The kid is lost. Cut the kid off. Tell grandma and grandpa to cut the kid off. No support.
It's so sad that this madness has been allowed to continue.